I am and it hurts, but I have to realize that I am never going to be happy in the future if I keep dwelling on the past.
2006-12-31 01:31:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please don't dwell on the past Hun.because i did and made a big depression.Think POSITIVE,the past is the past you cant not return,the future we don't no what its going to be,and now live in the present even if its just for 5 second at the time or 30 minute at a time.You should go and see the doctor please Hun don't wait please...........I could tell you lots of things happen to me in the past.Now i live 5 minutes or even 30 minutes at a time.And ask GOD for help HE will listen to you don't worry GOD is good for us don't forget it.
2006-12-31 02:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through something very hurtful in my life right now, and its totally being me down. I am very hurt so I know how you feel, I guess the only advice I can give is just what you said, you have to think about the future, if you keep dwelling on the past than your keep hurting, try to forget about it, move on, and stay positive. Remember that time heals all. Good luck.
2006-12-31 09:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by vwbabe7463 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am and it is very painful but knowing that God may have closed that window to open another door can help. I realize that need to focus on me and my son and not worry about a loser anymore and that I am worth much better than that. I'm not sure what you are going thru whether its a broken heart from a jerk or loss of a loved one but time does heal all wounds and I know right now you feel you will never get over it, you will in the future and something wonderful is in store for you if you let it happen. Keep your head up sweetie cuz somebody loves you.
2006-12-31 09:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i;m sorry that you are hurting right now.
you are right, you need to stop dwelling on the past.
try to think of something nice that happened to you or something that gives you pleasure (like a beautiful sunset or a flower you liked, or the sweet smell of roses on a hot summers day....).
whenever you find yourself thinking a negative thought, replace that thought with the positive one.
you may also want to take up a hobby or some classes so that you can distract yourself, be productive at the same time, and have some small successes that will give you a lift.
2006-12-31 09:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by owara l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am. I made someone choose, and he didn't choose me. It happend right around Christmas time the 26th to be exact. I called him on the 28 and he totally ignored me. Lesson learned: He's not good enough for me. Just realize this, everything in life happens for a reason. Approaching is a New Year, new week, and new day. Don't beat yourself up over something you can't change. Time heals all wounds and it will get better. Trust!
2006-12-31 09:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by TILAC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me too, see be Brave and Bold, Be Strong ok, Good Luck, It's not good to dwell on the past, Think Future.
2006-12-31 09:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. Everybody at various stages of their lives go thru hurtful situations. When you love, dream, aspire or rely there will always be let-downs that pain.
See which of these can help you through----
"These days will not last forever"
"Every cloud has a silver lining"
"Without pain there is no gain"
"I cried because I had no shoes, till i met a boy who had no feet"
"Tomorrow is a different Day"
"Time heals all grief"
BOL
2006-12-31 09:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good girl--you're on thr right track and you'll be fine.
I'm going through pain for my hubby now--he's overseas and his buddy was killed in action beside him--he's having a very difficult time with it.
2006-12-31 09:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there. Good luck in the new year!
2006-12-31 09:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry no im not BUT as long as you remember that --- this too shall pass --- you will be wonderful and find someone who will change your life
2006-12-31 09:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋