I met a girl yesterday at the bookstore, she was in the aisle of drawing and architecture ...I am usually shy in those kind of encounter ...But I took the courage with both my hands and approach her with assurance asking if she likes paintings and drawing and if it is the aisle where I was going to find some books drawing, after a few gentle exchange she said she was about to leave, when I ask her for her email and phone number, she said has neither phone , nor internet ...But yet she agreed that I gave her my phone number ...But she didn't still call me the same day ...But, why did she accept to take my phone number ? do you think she can eventually call someday during the week or another day ...? (I don't think I 'm gonna see her again)..it was just by chance ...!!!
2006-12-31 01:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Bobby,
The chance that this girl will call you is highly unlikely, she most likely took your phone number to appease you, so that she wouldn't have to come right out and say no...this way she isn't lying...she can call you if she is interested ( she isn't) and you walked away happy.. it doesn't hurt to try in these situations...but honestly I wouldn't be handing out my email or anything to someone that I only had a few "gentle exchanges " with...too risky. It's one thing if you hit it off and the chemistry is there...but it doesn't sound like it was. I have to admit I met someone recently that did the same thing :approached me in a store...I took their number as well but told them that I really wasnt interested in pursuing a relationship...I have since tossed the number.
2006-12-31 01:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to relax and stop worrying. She probably didn't give you her phone number because maybe she lives with her boyfriend. However she thought you were cute so she agree to accept your number. If she wasn't interested trust me she wouldn't have taken your number. You approached her that was your first good move. Don't wait by the phone for her call. Just go about your day and if she calls cool and if she doesn't don't worry. Just have that same positive approach when you see a beautiful female and i assure you'll find one if not pretty then her.
2006-12-31 09:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by demlimbas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to tell you to go to the bookstore you met her, atleast two time a day once whenever you are free but try your level best to go thier regularly as you have mentioned that she is very interested in drawing and painting therefore i think that their is a possiblility of her coming again there to get some books on drawing and painting and if you are lucky enough you can meet her if you visit the bookstore regularly. Therefore if you go there regularly with trust in you then you will surely meet her even if it is time consuming
2006-12-31 09:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by dNv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have a home phone or an internet id today. Why do you expect her to give a stranger access to this personal data?
Some people almost thrust their id or cards onto you and after some interaction perhaps she just accepted your number out of politeness, if you did that to her. Even if she does call it could be out of boredom or just some moment of indiscretion. Stop getting your hopes up and try to meet people through safer channels---not pick them up in aisles and stations.
2006-12-31 09:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls take your number when their not interested in you. Just forget her, she probably has a boyfriend or something. But for her to not have a phone or the internet was clearly a bold-faced lie. Who can live in the United States of America and function without a phone or internet. If that was the case what is she getting the books for? (Customers, class, etc. )
2006-12-31 09:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was taking the cautious & polite approach. Cautious coz she doesn't know you from a bar of soap & you just don't give out your details that easily these days. Polite coz maybe she truly doesn't want to hear from you, but didn't want to say it outright.
But then again, she might surprise you & actually call. Good luck!
2006-12-31 09:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she will call but its likely that she just didn't want to hurt your feelings, so that was her excuse, she'll take your number. But hey, don't worry about it, there r soooo many other girls out there, don't get all stressed over this one, go meet another one!
2006-12-31 09:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by vwbabe7463 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have just wanted to move on trying to be polite.....you probably will not hear from her ( i struggle with fact she doesn't have a phone ).......this one just maybe was not meant to be, so keep doing what you are doing and you will meet women with whom you both have the same interests. Good Luck
2006-12-31 09:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do in this situation is to forget about it.
if she calls, then pick things up from there.
if she had no intention of calling and still took your number, perhaps she was trying to be polite or to avoid a confrontation.
2006-12-31 09:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by owara l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she was being polite and took your number with no intention to use it. sorry, i don't think you'll hear from her.
well done on taking a chance though, see it as a positive step for you in being outgoing.
2006-12-31 09:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋