I know this guy for over a year now, and he's sort of a playboy. However, we got along very well as we seems to understand each other, but we only can talk by phone cause of the distance. We sort of have a non-exclusive relationship..we flirted a lot with each other. Before this, he used to call me, but right now...i felt like i'm doing most of the calling. I have the sense that he is deliberately making me call him. What happen is he would call me, talk for 2 minutes, and then he would suddenly hung up..so that i would call him back..but after that, we would talk like we always do..it's just that i'm just resentful cause i felt like he is using me..what do u think ?? His other tactics would be to miss call me a lot of time, so that i would call him back...i'm using prepaid,he too..so i think its unfair..is he saving his credit for someone else? cause his credit runs out fast, & i'know it's not because of me..we text only to say good night and stuff,not conversation..what do u think ??
2006-12-31 01:20:31 · 11 answers · asked by Thaleia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, the thing is, he is always there when i call him... and he always return my calls... i can't control myself from calling him back...i like talking to him... and we have so much fun talking... the only thing that's bothering me is the hung up thing...cause it can be irritating...
2007-01-04 05:15:41 · update #1
He can't make you call him.
It is your decision to call or not.
Don't waste your money - he has other interests - and you
should find some one closer to home that you can talk to
in person if you want. Close contact is always better.
2006-12-31 01:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's possible he's in a relationship with someone else. You never know. You should bring up that matter with him sometime. Maybe set a time when you call him and he calls you. That could relatively settle things. It's easy to believe that he is hanging up the phone because he might have a call from someone else, like a girlfriend. You said he was a playboy, so that is a definite possibility. If he doesn't stop, then you should try telling him again. If you start to feel like he just ignors you, then he isn't a true friend. Sometimes, friendships break when you don't get to see the person. When I switched schools, I wanted to continue talking on the phone with my best friend Mary. But soon we just stopped calling each other. That may be the case with you two.
2006-12-31 09:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Erin B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is trying to play you. Why are you even asking this question? Do you want this guy to train and control you? Get F/n real, ladies. Gawd!!! I hate dumbass people.
2006-12-31 09:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, i think he is delibretly making you ring him, especially if this has happened on more than one occasion. Ask him what it is thats going on and maybe then he'll realise his trick isnt working.
2006-12-31 09:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Alice H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a tight-***. If he really really likes you, he wouldn't mind spending money on calling you.
2006-12-31 09:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by funkychick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i fell the same. hes just using u, to waste his time. dont waste ur time and money on him.
2006-12-31 09:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by cacorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is doing this so u r using ur credit or ur phone bill and not his?
2006-12-31 09:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by sexilexi06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be smart, hes a cheap a$$, dont waste your time.
2006-12-31 09:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so-don't cal him--turn it around him. No one's making you anything you don't want to do.
2006-12-31 09:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not be the right guy,,
2006-12-31 09:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by a_n_o_n_y_m_o_u_s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋