sad love story?

Question

i meet a girl, im so serious about her..i dont do anything with studies, as i have a feeling that when im ready to tell my parents im gona tell them and say oh yeh i quit university....i always hated studies thats why, i thought after i tell my parents, il just start working full time....
anyways we argue 1 day and i thought that if she loves me soo much, she will contact me, 5 weeks go past and i cant take it, i ring her...... then she says u wernt there 4 me, i got some1 else to talk to and we dont argue...she says that i found out 2 weeks ago, my mum may have cancer...i got tears in my eyes, because she didnt tell me, she didnt come to me, she didnt remember me!!!!
i just dont knw what to do, she was perfect but didnt love me but said she did!!! i got no future in studies and no love!!! it hurts soo much, everyday i go to the park and see the sunset and cry!!!! im a guy but cant help it because i havnt really got friends to talk to

Answer 1

I'm so sorry to hear about this. I know how you feel. If you need someone to talk to just im me or e-mail

Answer 2

Go back to school for at least two reasons. 1. You can use the education/degree in the future, especially if you apply yourself. And, if you apply yourself well, the hurt will diminish for you will be too busy. Applying yourself diligently, you cannot help but be yourself and that is an attraction within itself.

2. Being interested in your studies and in growth is attractive itself.
Like attracts like- for any long term relationship, as a rule. Find a female study partner. Just the thought makes me think of returning to school for an even higher degree.

3. Learn to write correctly as it is a presentation of self. This question reads somewhat like a "Put-on." A bit of leg-pulling.

If you want people to think and answer your question/problem, have the respect to write the best you can. They are giving of their time.

Answer 3

If it is that easy for her to forget about you, she is not perfect for you. You are sad over the fantasy of the love you thought you had and lost with her. The good news is that you do indeed have a future. You just have to accept that it wont be with her. You can get back into school and do what feels best for you. Respect yourself enough to move past this and readjust your goals for your own future. Learn your lessons from this-- unless it is a total emergency, don't put anyone ahead of your own goals. You'll feel better about yourself. Sooner or later, your heart will let you know that you're ready to love again. Hopefully you will be wiser as a result of the lessons you learned and choose someone who is willing to take on her share of responsibility for a good relationship rather than put the blame all on you. Good luck. Don't give up. Hard times are what cause us to learn our lessons, fine tune ourselves and become better people. They teach us to appreciate the good times even more.

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear this. I feel your pain, going through similar situations. My advice I can give you is to maybe go back to school, even though you don't like it (ALOT OF PEOPLE DONT), get an education and a great job, then you'll meet someone new that loves you as much as you do. Try to go out and forget about it, go meet new people, stay away from her cuz it will just make you worst. Hey, you can always im me if you have no one else to talk to, vwbabe7463, Good luck and try to stay positive!

Answer 5

Well sounds like the girl is not interested in you,so i suggest you move on with your studies because now a days you need a good education to get a real good job that pays good money,and with a good education you can do that and when you finally meet the woman of your dreams you can give her the things she wants.

Answer 6

I know whats its like to be heartbroken......I am truly sorry. Thats how life is, unpredictable. You need to get focus on school a job whatever. You need to realize there is always better fish in the sea. Keep your head up the right one is just around corner and you'll run into her one day. Dont cry over some girl, dont lower yourself. be brave. Good luck I wish you happiness. If you like u can email me I am a 21 y/o female and might be able to give u good advice. [e-mail]

Answer 7

get out and meet someone new...sitting around reminissing about someone who hasnt cared to call you for 5 weeks and has already moved on and never loved you in the first place is going to tear you apart....you need to make some friends and get out on the town!..and dont give up on school...if you are somewhat of the way through dont quit now..i know college is not fun..i hate it too, but to give up you are giving up on your future!...to be anything worth something you are going to need a degree!...good luck...you should work on yourself...you will never be happy with someone else if you cant be happy with you alone! good luck!

Answer 8

you knopw what give your self a break you not a bad person and it normal to feel that way really it is but life comes with its challenges and you have to go with full speed and cut them out and at the end of the day you wil feel so much better about yourself

listen about the friends thing heres my e mail if it will be to use and if you ever wanna talk [e-mail]

happy new year
2007

Answer 9

(3) Asymptotes who can get closer & nearer yet heavily isn't at the same time... :( --- I dated somebody a week in the past leaving for Sg. We stayed in touch in spite of the area. And we merely shop getting nearer and nearer each and every day. This person is going to the U. S. quickly and that i visit proceed to be here in Sg. besides the undeniable fact that it is in basic terms been some months, we are extra suitable than acquaintances yet under fans.

Answer 10

That's really sad, but you still have a chance to go back to college. There is no excuse for not studying and with a degree you can get your life back together. Trust me.