i am really really shy but i want a girlfreind!
2006-12-31 01:11:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not be surprised: some girls are actually attracted to shy boys. They just do. You just have to wait until a brave girl comes up to you. However, don't just sit there and wait. Give yourself style and charm. Work on your social skills. If you can, brave yourself up for the girl of your dreams.
2006-12-31 01:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I started my family, I was a manager at Burger King. I recall this guy who obviously had a major crush on me. He was so sweet but got all bashful everything he was near me- - He would always smile and then look down. He was attractive too. If he would've just come out and said "Do you want to go to a movie on Saturday?"- I would've. He never asked me out though and eventually, I quit and moved on in my life. My point is, it's OK to be shy but don't keep your feelings trapped within you. Just ask a girl out....she'll probably say yes. After awhile, you'll get to know each other and you won't be shy around her. Have some confidence and "ask her out!"
2006-12-31 09:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to break out of your shell a little bit. Also, you will have to find someone who is more dominant and takes the lead to speak to you and move on. Alot of women don't mind taking the first step, but expect the male to take the second if she takes the first. So if someone shows an interest to see a movie or do something with you...take the next step and say well why don't you give me your number and I will call you.
I think you are shy but I also think you are afraid of being rejected. So take the second step when you see the opportunity and also take the first...you never know. :)
2006-12-31 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are shy too. Just go for it. They're human beings (well, some of them)...they won't bite you. If you're a nice guy, with some looks and manners, that's a start. Most girls (I believe) like that. Use your skills...watch the Napolean Dynamite DVD.
2006-12-31 09:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls, like me, really like shy guys and are even more attracted to them when they make a bold move. Come out from under your bed and ask!
2006-12-31 09:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by HeadOverHeels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really really like a girl, then you will forget about your shyness & ask her out.
There's no way around it. You get a girlfriend the same way guys who are not shy do - ask.
2006-12-31 09:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like a girl ask her out. Don't be afraid of rejection learn to get used to it. Face your fear, you'll probably be rejected 99% of the time. The more you get rejected the more you will be desensitized from it, so that it will become second nature to be turned down.
2006-12-31 09:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it by being more open and friendly. Trust me. If you never try, then how will you know? Get some courage and go for it. So what if they turn you down. There are lots of girls out there who would be willing to give you a chance. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-31 09:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
May be u r shy when there r plenty people around so try getting her one on one and tell her your feelings.
2006-12-31 09:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by kingteka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy boys cant get girlfriends..you have to stop being shy in order to get one
2006-12-31 09:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋