My crush is playing hard-to-get and I'm was playing that game a long time ago. We both like each other because he told me that he did and I told him. It's kind of hard to get to know a person while they are playing hard-to-get and he won't stop! I cut down to the personal secret level, but he isn't even telling me his favorite color! I want to get to know him and all, but he won't let me!
2006-12-31 00:57:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just asked me out on New Years Day, what do I do?
2006-12-31 01:40:57 · update #1
Perhaps you need to turn the tables, and give him the cold treatment... perhaps he will then try and pursue you.
It may be that he is coy, because he KNOWS you fancy him and you are EASY TO GET... no doubt, if he REALLY fancies you, he will pursue you, as soon as you stop making it obvious that you have a crush on HIM.
Try it. Nothing to lose.
2006-12-31 01:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Biker B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His playing "hard to get" is working. You are obsessing over him to an unhealthy extent.
When he does give you even a minuscule look at his "feelings" you'll respond by rewarding him in a disproportionate amount...
(I picture him "admitting" to being sad and lonely sometimes-- and you instantly hop into bed with him in order to "encourage" him to open up more...)
What you don't understand is that he's playing you, and after he gets what he wants, he'll dump you and move on to the next challenge.
Just my opinion, but from the evidence you've offered, what other conclusion is there?
2006-12-31 09:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be enjoying your coaxing so he won't stop his playing hard-to-get. Think: he can't get to know you well enough when you are playing hard to get but he can make you tell him things by playing hard to get. Of course he won't stop. Tell him that it's either calling it quits or you start seeing other people.
2006-12-31 09:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this game goes on for too long----he is just a tease and not really interested. Or maybe he is shy and not able to go to the next step. Give it time, don't push it till he seems ready.\. He sounds immature but may not really be a bad guy.
2006-12-31 09:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be pigs, can't we?
He sounds like a bad wicket, I'm afraid. Take an interest in someone else and see if it pushes him into action.
If not, he is a no go.
2006-12-31 09:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is eighter play hard to get back...or tell him straight up that your sick of that game and if he doesnt stop you will find some one else...i hope this helps...good luck
2006-12-31 09:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get??? when does it change to not interested --- if he is playing too hard then move on -- if he was truly interested he would not play
2006-12-31 09:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find someone that doesn't play mind games.
2006-12-31 09:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you walk the dog the leash should have slack.
2006-12-31 09:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by blueridgemotors 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flash em.
2006-12-31 09:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋