I keep write to him in a email like all the time.... and I just want him back he all I think about and I still cry over him and we were in love to I know we were should I keep writeing to him I cant call him bec he change his numbe on me...... and yes he know im having his kid he kick me out when I was 11 weeks along........ I cant get him out of my head I miss him so much... and the thing is he want this kid with me bec I kept asking him is he sure that he want a baby with me and he said yes so we started to try and I got pregnant..... and I used to fight with him alot and I got help with that now im better and I have wrote to him all the time telling him that I got help...... and he does not email me back what should I do I love him Still ....... just want him to take me back .......
2006-12-31 00:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE HAS 2 KIDS FROM HIS EX WIFE
2006-12-31 01:54:05 · update #1
Well On His Yahoo 60 Page He has add girls on there so now I might not have a chance with him....what do I do Now I still cant stop crying over him and missing him and wanting him back .....
2007-01-01 13:07:16 · update #2
u said above,
"keep write to him in a email like all the time.... and I just want him back he all I think about and I still cry over him and we were in love to I know we were should I keep writeing to him I cant call him bec he change his numbe on me...... and yes he know im having his kid he kick me out when I was 11 weeks along........ I cant get him out of my head I miss him so much"
Well dont know this whole situation but first foremost your emotional not only from him playing head games but your carrying a child that will intensify all your feelings.
He knows your hurting an missing and prob intentionally change number on u cause he can and I feel sick as it sounds he likes seeing u beg and hurt an miss him so much kinda like a comfort zone for him....think about it ur preg w/his baby and knows ur vulnurable now even worse and u prob kissed his controlling lil azzzz before cuz he sounds like he blamed u for much and u sound like ur starting to believe it......geesh....so he has no worries about u being or hurtin over no other but now the baby may have woke him up a bit so hes a bit nervous or may want space but still wants to keep u confused.....too much to get into just do the hardest thing in the world but the one that is gaurenteed to win him back or your self love an respect back,.......ready to do it ok its simple to say harder to do,
Dont ever write, call or speak to him for a least 2 months in no way shape or form and mention his name NEVER to anyone in a way ur so lonely and hurting......hell naaaa honey,
your a women ur beautiful and my God you never knew so many men out there that were turned on by a glowing soon to be mother thats single. Say how shocked to see the wounderful support and praise they give u for being a single parent that it shows strength and its sexy to them......I dont care if ur puking from heartache and crying in your pillow every nite .....never show or share it w/ any one whom may tell him different to get his ego up again....I promise ya even if out of just pure what the hell is up with her
TRY TO GOTO SOME SUPPORT GROUPS FOR SINGLE PARENTS , YOUNG MOMS "U SOUND YOUNG AT LEAST" AND GROUPS FOR CONTROLLING OR ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS "YEP EVEN VERBAL , EMOTIONAL , PSYCHOLOGICAL IS ALL SHAPES AND FORMS OF ABUSE....TRUST ME PLEASE ON THIS ONE.
TOTALLY HAVING TO RETRAIN UR OBSESSION W/THIS GUY OFF TEMP IS GONNA BE HARD BUT EVERY DAY WILL GET EASIER IT DOES AND PLEASE START A JOURNAL.......FOR YOU AND ONE FOR UR BABY ..ONE DAY U MAY THANK THIS GUY FOR BEIN JUST WHO HE IS AND ONE DAY U MAY READ THIS ONLINE AND SAY OMG I SAID THIS I WHAT FOR THAT GUY....LOL.
LIFE IS FULL OF SUPRISE'S AND ALWAYS GUARENTEED TO CHANGE.
HE WILL FIND U , WILL WAY BEFORE TWO MONTHS UP , JUST HOPE HE DID NOT SEE THIS ALREADY GOOD LUCK, NICE SITE BELOW FOR YA ,,,,K
REMEMBER......PLEASE ALWAYS .....LOVE ......YOU 1ST ALWAYS AND YOU WILL NEVER NEED EVER AGAIN , I UNDERSTAND BEEN THERE BEFORE MANY OF US HAVE
2006-12-31 03:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by NatureOrNurture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a dick! Get over him. Plainly he doesn't want a child now. You don't have to suffer with him! He isn't worth it! You should leave him alone. But if you don't have the neccesary income, he MUSt provide you . After all , it's his child. You can't make him be a better person. Just hope that he will realize what he's missing. If you push him,he'll run away. If you show him that you don't need him, but your child does, maybe he'll come back to you.
2006-12-31 01:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this. But it seems like he doesn't want you back. You said he changed his phone number! That's a clear sign he is dodging you. Just back off for a while. Maybe he is nervous or scared about being a dad. He knows about his child and hopefully he will do the responsible thing when the child is born. If he doesn't you may have to seek the friend of the court for support. I wouldn't hold your breath on you two getting back together, only time will tell on that one. Good Luck.
2006-12-31 00:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry because you are still in love with your ex...this is a man who is showing you every indication he wants nothing to do with you, and yet you are still punishing yourself by trying to hold onto him.....in truth your best bet is to look after yourself and your baby, and forget about the ex....if you were to get back together and you both reverted back to how you were with each other.....ask yourself would that environment be a good one to bring a child up in?.....i think not.
2006-12-31 00:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimberly: You need to give him time! I don't know how old you two are but that makes a big a difference. Great that you got help because you will need that to raise this child.When child is born it creates a whole lot of emotions and maybe he will want to join you then to help raise it. Most of all you need to stay healthy do not let this bring you down, it will work out one way or the other!
2006-12-31 00:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by shane s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello There...
FiuHHH..you must B very sad and confuse right now..
I think this is something that you must face by yourself first...
But don't you have any family or relatives that you can share this problem with??
maybe through them,you can get more "air to breath"..so that you don't feel very lonely in facing this problem...
I think you can;t just try to email him....
Try to ask his friends,or family...maybe he gave his phone number to them...
Or go to places where he often go...If you're Lucky,YOu must Find Him...
I know That Love Will find a way....
As long as you keep on trying,I bet that You'll Be happy....
Gudluck girL!!!
2006-12-31 00:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by sweetyuth_xp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, that's what happened to me give him time and i mean time so don't call or email him anymore he'll come around how long were ya'll together? that happened with me with the second child we have two kids together and he cheated on me we broke up we didn't get along so i just let him be did argue with him anymore we spent 21 months like that yes 21 but 3 months ago we just started getting along because he came around i didn't force myself to him, now he's got the other girl pregnant and he doesn't want nothing to do with her or the baby my situation is a little different than yours but my point is let him come back to you don't you keep calling him and forcing yourself to him and no we didn't have sex for those 21 months my friend did the same thing she didn't chase after her guy and he came back around email me i want to get in touch with you i'll explain a lot but i do not feel like typing it out i'll only keep my email status open for a couple of days so hurry i'll give you my pesonal email address later
2006-12-31 00:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by OnTheProwl007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has made his choice and you need to try and move on for the sake of your child. Relationships have to be 2 way and he obviously isn't interested. It may be hard now especially with the pregnancy but you need to concentrate on taking care of yourself and this baby and perhaps in the future things may change
2006-12-31 00:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is you have to think about your baby and do things for yourself and bubs he doesn't want to communicate with you so the best thing you can do is move on as hard as that is to hear as I know but things really do work out the way they are supposed to and it is obvious he doesn't feel the same way so why get yourself upset and the baby does feel your emotions so find something else to take your mind of it .I know its hard but you have to try for yourself and bubs..
2006-12-31 01:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by gg_rider7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just scared and lonely. And, NO-ONE blames you for feelings this way. Most of us, have been there before. But, you need to take control of your life, and your babies!! Do you really want to be with someone who doesnt want you??? Invest in yourself, make yourself a better person. Learn from him, and take notes on what you want in a partner. You will find someone one day who will love you enough not to kick you out, and he will love your baby too. But, make sure you believe that you deserve better. If I believe you do, then you can do it yourself!! Good Luck honey. Seek comfort in others around you that love and care for you, friends and family. But love yourself. It is the best gift you can give yourself through life!!
2006-12-31 00:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have learned a lesson the hard way. Now you have to live with it. Next thing he will do is to change his email address. I doubt if he will want to have much to do with you and if you want any support you'll have to get it from a court.
2006-12-31 00:46:01 · answer #11 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋