2006-12-30 22:58:25 · 9 answers · asked by dgviews 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is hard to answer without more detail.
2006-12-30 23:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There R many ways to loose trust. So I will give U a general answer just as your question is. The best way to gain trust is to to communicate honestly even if it will hurt. The communication should come b4 U do something to throw your relationship off the track. When in a marriage we often take that individual 4 granted and forget to do the things we did to attract each other.
In my opinion there is nothing U can do accept be U. If your marriage is real Your wife will forgive U in time, and in her healing she WILL NOT try to make you suffer/pay for your mistake/s. When I say be U... if it is in your heart to apologize every time U see that look upon her face hold her and tell her U love her and U appreciate her loving you enough to forgive you. If your heart tells U to cherish this woman and not take her for granted then do U.
Ask yourself if it took the loss of trust to make U realize what ever made U come to yahoo and ask this question? Sometimes we make mistakes but did U learn the lesson so U will never have to repeat the mistake ?
One Love Mrs.B
2006-12-30 23:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Black Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust isn't automatic. It takes a long time to build it and only a second to loose it. If you want her trust back you really need to be consistent and 100% honest from now on. By that I mean be where you say you are (cell phones are wonderful tools for cheaters!) be back when you say you are going to be back, do what you say you are going to do, and walk your talk. The real key is to be consistent. Be predictable because that is what trust really is - predictable behavior.
2006-12-30 23:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by warmdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work you butt off for the next couple of years rebuilding the trust, tell her all the details of the affair that she wants to know about. And keep it in your pants...an affair is the most selfish thing one partner can do to another.
2006-12-30 23:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the cause that made your wife stop trusting you and rectify it. Your effort will eventually be noticed by her and things will roll back to what they initially were.
2006-12-30 23:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and she probably what am i saying im positive she thinks of you as her bestfriendlover ect....my goodness work it out your married fight for each other dont let it go u guys would be crazy to do that. I would fight to stay with my husband till the end if I broke his trust.
2006-12-30 23:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by laura k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you have done.
If it's a small infraction, it should take no time at all.
If it's a huge trust issue, it could take time to insure her it will not happen again.
Good Luck.
2006-12-30 23:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show ur sincerity. Make all ur efforts to let her noe tat u realised ur mistake n u only want her in ur life. Change ur contact number, at least she'll feel more secure.
2006-12-31 01:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by le_snowangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a good boy and do everything you can to make up to her for what ever you did to lose it....perhaps with time she will forgive you...good luck
2006-12-30 23:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋