Whaz So Wrong Wif Datin At 13?

Question

Aye people discriminate those of young teen age primarly the 12-14 yr olds on relationships.What about those who are mature at this age , its a spoiler for them. Im in a relationship at 13 and his 14 but its like nothing wrong but whay do the elders hate against uz that are this young n have a relationship wif the other gender???

I might add its non-sexual , we only ever hug each other or just a kiss its not lyk that sexually serious.

Answer 1

OMG I know! I can't give you a reason, because it's been bugging me too...but it's like they totally forget that when they were in eighth grade, they dated too! And, for everyone who says "because kids have sex and get pregnant and do stupid sh*t" that's a load of crap! I mean, unless someone's a s l u t, then nobody is having sex at 13! And, why do they all presume to tell us what to do? It's like HELLO!!!! NONE of your business!!!!!! Sorry for venting, but I was reading the answers to your question and got mad!!!

Answer 2

You're immature. 1) Your grammar 2) Your typing skills: whaz, n, aye, primarly, etc
Don't try to act more grown-up before you are. You might be physically able to have a child, but are you ready to support one and be a mom? No. Being in a relationship elevates the probability you have sex, which very easily could lead to pregnancy. Grown-ups, not elders, don't want you in a relationship because you aren't capable. A "relationship" isn't casual IMs, or walking each other down a hallway between class. It's being able to support each other, talk to each other, and have a real bond.

Answer 3

for the people above or below, your typing skills have absolutely nothing to do with maturity. it's probably better that you type correctly but typing "lyk diz" is something most teens do. go on myspace & see for yourself. i have many teen friends (because i am a teen) & it seems as if the only possible way to type is like that. it's just a stage that comes with being a teen so don't worry about what others say.

as for your problem, being a teen, most adults seem to think that having a relationship consists of having sex at least once a week. in your case it may not always be true. however, teens have these "hormone rages" where they will want to touch each other. trust me, i'm young but i've had my share of these rages. so i guess the best thing to do is just stick it out. if they don't like it oh well. as long as your parent's don't mind you dating who cares what other adults have to say. =]

Answer 4

I don't see anything wrong with it but i'm only 17. I've had relationships since I was 12, but nothing serious until I was 14 and he was 16. My parents weren't exactly thrilled with that haha. But we proved a lot of people wrong, we went out for more than just a few weeks, it was a year and 2 months which seems like forever when your that age. But I made mistakes then, had sex, had pregnancy scares, etc.

Adults are only trying to protect you from making mistakes before you make them. I got lucky and mine were only scares, and I got a chance to correct my life and me and my boyfriend split up. It's now almost 3 years and i'm with someone who I could see spending the rest of my life with and looking back and thinking that I almost could have had a baby with someone that really didn't even care.

I just think that if your going to be in a relationship at your age, please do it responsibably. I know I might be preaching to you (above) but it's only to try to help you in case you are having sex or thinking about it. The other people are kind of just yelling at you at an adult perspective, but atleast i'm telling you how i've been in your shoes as a 13-14 year old girl and came down to peer pressure from a boy. :)

Answer 5

as an adult who has been at your point several years ago. that first relationship seems like it is all in life that matters. and you are going on emotions alone and not thinking as clearly and rashonly as if you were older. i don't think being in a relationship is bad you just need a few guide lines and rules with this structred by yall parents to help yall out. when you are dating you are looking for that one person you could spend the rest of your life with,for better or worse. not want to be with anybody else, emotionaly or physicaly. when i was 13 i started dating a guy that was 20 we were so in love. i was mature for my age. was given alot of resposability at that age my mom was divorce and i had a younger sister and i was her primary care giver and i paid bills and cooked and cleaned. my mom was working 3 jobs and dating to. so we didnt see her much. but when i met this guy my mom told me at first no way and then we sunk around to see each other. so she said ok if yall really want to see each other i will allow it but you have to follow certin rules. 1. we only got to see each other 2 times a week when my mom was at home and we did not get to leave the house until my mom was comfortable with us being togather and felt there was more to our relationship then infatuation. that if he really cared about me he would have no problems with this. and at first he didnt then he just got tired of the whole thing and he just quit showing up on the days we had togather and a few monthes later he married someone else. my mom saved me from what could have turned out a lot worse. i could have gotten preg. or emotionaly hurt more than i already had. so sometimes parents are just trying to help. i know it is hard to see that sometime. good luck.

Answer 6

It all depends on how people define "relationships" To some people having a relationship is your best friend, to others it's being married. it all depends. If they are less than 16 or 18 and they're holding hands, that's fine, what's the big deal? But if they're making out, or having sex, that's not really okay. They're still kids and they need to live it up. They should be playing sports or hanging out with friends, not staying home, feeding the baby.

Answer 7

well look at the way you are talking. second, you wouldnt be arguing this point. you wouldnt be bothered by the fact people "discriminate" on 13 year old relationships. mature people in a relationship do not use "hate against" or "discriminate" when it comes to describing a relationship

Answer 8

Your English is perplexing to study, yet are you asking if he's worth working for? in case you do unlike speaking with him, i do no longer think of you like him very lots. enable him have his boy time and don't anticipate a text cloth lower back acceptable away. He may well be doing something and he can not get to the telephone. confirm in case you pick to stay interior the relationship, yet. in case you do no longer, enable him locate somebody who does.

Answer 9

Whats wrong with it? Maturity is shown in many ways. You are proving by your typing skills that you are a child and immature. Mature people do not say/type "wif" instead of "with" or "whaz" instead of "What's"

Answer 10

because at your age - if you think you are so mature - you should know that your parents would like you to first learn english in school so you can properly converse with boys later on in life.