My current relationship is not very good. I sleep in the next bedroom as I have notice the distant between us- no affection from him.
My ex- husband died 6 months ago..
What does my dream mean exactly?
2006-12-30 21:16:24 · 40 answers · asked by Sani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you jumped into a new relationship too soon....not yet over with the loss of husband..
2006-12-30 21:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People tend to want what they can't have. Remember Adam and Eve. What your doing is by no means right. It so many people out there who long for that prefect man. You were blessed enough to get it and now you throwing it away. I don't believe by any-means that your in-love with your ex. If you were baby you would be with me right now. Love is a powerful emotion. People have killed over it. So I'm not going to believe for one second that all of sudden you just fell back in love. Another thing is if your ex loved you so much, you think he was going to let you get married without a fight. Maybe he looking a little more into your husband wallet and what he can do with that divorce money once your through with your husband. I think you need to have a big reality check, and hope you have damaged your husband forever.
2016-05-22 23:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, I don't know. But one thing for sure is don't leave your life by your dreams.
It could just be that you're feeling so miserable and so do miss the love your late husband used to show you, but particularly because you feel neglected, lonely and miserable.
You need someone to talk to, again possibly your late husband used to be that person.
The fact is, you do have to do something about your current situation.
It's not healthy, and things are not going to get better by themselves. The longer you leave it, the worst it's going to get.
Whatever you do, don't start spending your money on fortune tellers.
Your late husband has gone.
You are there and in a real relationship which is lacking.
It's time for a chat with your current boyfriend to find if things can be improved or NOT.
You are being passive and it's NOT going to do you any good.
Definitely time for action. Good luck and BE strong.x
2006-12-31 02:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that your husband was already your ex by the time he died? I think you are obviously subconsiously going back to the good times in your dream. But your ex husband wasnt your ex for no reason - there must have been problems.
If your current relationship isnt very good, then you must really take steps to improve or end it. There is always another way. The New Year is coming up - maybe its time to start afresh.
Psychologies magazine (UK) is always full of good advice for turning relationships round etc. See Jan 2007 issue for info that may help you.
Hopefully you can talk to the new man in your life and see if you can change things between you. Both of you will have to want to though.
Good luck!
2006-12-31 00:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh...... I don't think thats very good, but I ain't an analysis of dreams so try a website like the one below.
Sorry to hear about your ex husbands death, but although he was an ex, you will still be grieving him as was part of your life for a period of time.
If your not happy in a relationship, and your sleeping in different rooms, why are you still together?! Life's too short, be with someone that loves you unconditionally, and you adore them back, i'm sure you deserve the happiness of being in love! x
2006-12-30 21:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subconciously you desire your husband (ex). You have not cut off soul ties with him on your side. Bury him. Take a rock and write his name on it and physically bury him so you can have closure. Regarding your current husband I think you need to read the book Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerichs. It puts things in a nutshell for both you and your spous.
PS a lot of partners sleep in sep bedrooms. It is no shame. SOmetimes its better since you both get a good nights rest. Dont take it personally rather see it as recovery time. I really recommend you read the book I suggested. It will change both of your view points on marriage and love and repect for one another.
Good luck and look up not down. See colour not black. Be Positive, not negative!
NEgative draws negative and visa versa. If you need more help let me know add a message to your request. GOd bless you
2006-12-30 21:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a happy married woman now. my first husband died and for a very long time i missed him so much and i had lots of sexual dreams about him. you miss your ex husband very much and its hard that your current relationship is not going very well. you probably remember the good times you and your ex husband had and wish he was alive and with you. you are sad that your relationship is not so good and wish it was better like in your dream. i was best friends with my first husband and had lot of good memories that go back 20 years. I hope that your life goes well in the next new year!!
2006-12-31 08:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dreamt of my ex-husband and we made love?
2014-12-14 19:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry for your loss, love.
I would suggest it is a dream more of intimacy and affection for your husband- unfortunately and tragically never to be reciprocated.
Perhaps it is also a means of your sub-conscious warning you that you should not fully dismiss the past, instead find a man more suitable for you and your mental state.
Chin up, love. Best of New Years wishes!
2006-12-30 21:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your dream means you are craving intimacy . That you are not happy with your current relationship and that you are having a hard time getting over you ex husband.
You need to find ways to spend some time with your new lover and touch base on a intimate level. It is more then just sex, you need to touch base with him psychologically.
2006-12-30 21:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dallas C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That you need the love you had with your first husband, ur craving love and affection and i guess physical affection.
Your dream is bring more awareness for you to sort out ur relationship or move on.
Happy new year xx
2006-12-30 21:19:32 · answer #11 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋