she had already given me her yahoo password to me. but the thing is that i went to myspace and put her yahoo email on the forgot password box. myspace sends the password to the yahoo email account. hence i get the password. i got a gut feeling about this girl cheating on me since the longest. i had to know the truth its been tormenting for a long time. so when i finally check it out i find out shes sleeping with someone she met through myspace. i've been with this girl for five years and she does this! well i know i checked her messages but come on this girl is lying to me! i just wanna know if it is illegal to that. please help me out so when i tell her about the messages she cannot deny anything or make threats to me. i had a good cause. come on i could of gotten an std!
2006-12-30 21:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by R Z 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Leave my space, and her space, see a doctor, tell her bye!
2006-12-30 21:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its good you found out. I did something similar. Glad I did...or I'd still be in a relationship where I was being lied to and having a 'gut feeling' something was wrong....haunting me all the time. At least I was able to prove it and break free!
Lots of people on here tell you how 'imature' and 'creepy' it is to look in your partners email...but if you have a suspicion...you just want the truth....so what!...SHE broke the trust...not you...in your guts you knew it, but couldnt prove it......I doubt all these people would be as judgemental about it if they were in the same position.
I dont think it was illegal. And it is much less wrong that what she did to you...its horrible to cheat on someone !!! Good job figuring it out...sorry to hear about it though. Good luck dealing with her...and good luck in the future finding someone who deserves your trust!
2006-12-30 21:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by paradox is interesting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll be fine. I have went on and read my daughters page on there. They get a bit mad, but hell looks to me you have more reason to be mad than she does. However, she will probably try to justify her actions, and say you were the one wrong by violating her and reading her myspace page. She's a scumbag and don't let her make you feel bad. It's the same thing if you would have hired a person to investigate her stinkin as*.
She's gonna be mad simply because you found out, and her game is over. Piss on an STD, you could have gotten AIDS.
2006-12-31 00:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the start, in the adventure that your relationship became going so nicely and you're in love and all that BS, why did you verify her messages? you're mendacity to your self in case you're saying something different than "i don't have faith her to be dedicated." there is 0 reason to ever verify a larger half's own digital mail, text fabric messages, facebook inbox, and so on. except you have a reason to have faith they're cheating. you probably did, which suggests that there is something approximately her you do not have faith. or you have not have been given any self esteem, wherein case you will desire to probably get some counseling. That mentioned, in case you probably did not comprehend approximately her speaking to her ex, it somewhat is wise that she would not inform you approximately assembly up with him. In my journey, the guy you will desire to rigidity approximately least is the ex, and that's no exception. If she became lower back together with her ex, you will comprehend, and it would not look there is any indication which you do. apparently not something handed off and so your spying became inquisitive approximately naught. and because she deleted all her texts, she knows you're spying on her or suspects which you will, which potential issues are actually not as impressive and amazing as you think of they're. i think of it somewhat is time you return sparkling, to your guy or woman guilt besides as conserving issues trouble-free interior the relationship and searching out what she extremely does think of and comprehend. of course you have some underlying difficulty together with her, or women folk usually, that forestalls you from being trusting of your better half. you will desire to shop your indiscretions a secret, yet i think if that became the effort-free direction, you won't be posting on right here :)
2016-10-19 06:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by benavidez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you access to her email address. It's her own dumb fault if that opened other doors, like access to her myspace account and it's not illegal for you to use information she voluntarily gave you. You need to put her far, far behind you and never look back. She is a low life; I'm sorry she put you through all this heartache.
2007-01-02 03:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is time to give your girlfriend "herspace". If you can't trust her anymore it is time to move on. It is a strange world we live in when cyberspace can break up a relationship. I don't think what you did is illegal, but it is a little creepy. Somewhat akin to reading someone's letters. But, no matter how you found out, it is time to move on. Better to find out now than when after you are even more committed.
2006-12-30 21:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not illegal. If you were hacking into it then yes. But obviously you guys were together and she must have given you her email password for you to be in it in the first place. HER BAD!
2006-12-30 21:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by SHY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so worried about ethics, and convincing her that you know for sure that she's cheating? Why are you looking for another pathetic excuse not to leave her? Seems to me like you've given her a lot of your power.
2007-01-01 08:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would she know that you accessed her account unless you told her.
there are no current laws that could get you arrested in America, if there is you could always deny you did it and it would be her word against yours.
2006-12-30 21:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have to know how you found out. It doesn't matter, all you have to do is dump her butt. Nobody deserves that. Move on my friend, there are plenty of loyal women out there.
2006-12-30 21:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by bon b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told me she didn't have a boyfriend. And you don't need to worry about STD's, I'm as clean as a whistle.
2006-12-30 22:57:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋