this is mostly directed to femmes. i'm a butch gal, and i was wondering what features do femmes find attractive in butch girls. i noticed that most of the butch girls where i live are kind of chubby, do femmes prefer a butch with a little meat? or do they prefer the muscular, tone type? this question popped into my mind when i was at the gym and i noticed a butch-femme couple outside.
2006-12-30 20:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i work out alot, so i'm pretty muscular and tone. i have broad shoulders and a pretty defined V shape...is that too masculine for femmes, should i just eat some twinkies, since most femmes seem to like pudgy butches?
2006-12-30 20:39:11 · update #1
Mmmm, yay! I rarely find questions I really want to answer, and this is one of them.
I absolutely adore butch girls and feel there are far, far too few of them near me! I also notice that many femmes like their butches a little chunky, and I've heard tell from them that they actually like it that way- big and strong to hold her, you know. I myself like someone "solid", and muscular and toned is delicious, especially arms . . . I'm so weak in the knees for a girl with arm muscles! I'm definitely not against big soft teddy bear butches, but if I had my choice, I'd got from thinner (well, not too skinny, ick) to solidly muscular. Not that I can talk (let me lose fifty pounds first).
Apart from that, I love butches with beautiful smiles, cute button noses, and deep, soulful eyes. Angular faces are quite attractive to me, and I love bois who can pull off a shy, cute look. In fact, I think my dream girl quite possibly already exists in Silas Howard. Oh Silas . . . But I digress. That's just me- there's a femme out there for every type of butch around, I know. And of course, personality always comes before looks.
Hope that's helped!
2006-12-30 20:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, first you'd have to define "butch" and "femme" first. Just be yourself and keep your eyes open and you'll probably find someone. Don't try to be someone you're not.
2007-01-01 21:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a sensible femme woman who has a gorgeous partner the essential ingredient that works for me is that healthy look ..that means muscles that are useful .....not necessarily created at the gym..girls have to have curves too .. . but what matters and
whats sexy is the chemistry
2006-12-31 04:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by ms.kissel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
An attractive butch will have a leather wallet with a chain that attaches to her belt loop. She will have her smokes rolled up in the sleeve of her t-shirt. She will have a crew cut hairdo. She will wear boys pants, boys underwear, no makeup.
2006-12-31 06:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
butch is a butch no characteristics, just plain butch
2006-12-31 04:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by brissy_006 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I lke my butches to have a penis
2006-12-31 06:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
Why do women want a woman that looks and acts like a man??? Just go find a man and get over it
2006-12-31 04:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Makon G 2 · 2⤊ 10⤋