just venting
2006-12-30 19:58:17 · 13 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to hear that. Is it a drug? Never heard of it.
2006-12-30 20:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by UzeHerName 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am very sorry for you, however if you love him you will rather pray for him and ask God to frustrate the plans of the devil in his life. AA book that will change things for him and you is Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerichs and also THE PRAYING WIFE by Stormie Omartian. Both are excellent books.
I know you are angry and hurt and frustrated beyond articulation but this I can say: THings can be better. SHow support not condemnation. SHow love and show respect. He gets neither, hence turning to things other than you. His life is a mess. Be supportive not the other way round. However its all a matter of CHOICE. GOd is the only one who can restore what the locusts are eating right now!
Good luck to you
2006-12-30 22:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband didn't just walk out....you threw him out, you don't even know how much you have hurt him...He loves you more than life itself...you basically said he was a piece of sh't, trash and said to leave. He did not want to go, but he can't handle the fact you say the things you do. He has done nothing but love and adore you..Yes he did use vent to PLAY A GAME...no sexual talk, no personal talk...a game, no harm no foul...should he have told you..sure, however, he knows what you would say, think and do. You know he loves you with all of his heart....so, sleep on it...he doesn't want the marriage to end....maybe the two of you should go to councelling together.....
2006-12-30 21:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by dominatus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bummer. Hang in there. Maybe the new year will bring better things. What is ventrilo?
2006-12-31 00:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old ventrilo trick hey Chief?
Cest la vie.
2006-12-31 00:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so from what I have learned about Ventrilo is that it is an Scalable Voice over IP (VoIP) communications system.
So was he talking porn or worse?
Several conversations at once?
2006-12-30 20:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Nedan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, from this and your other Q it looks like the worst night of your life, huh? I can't even imagine from where I sit. Andy is it? A s shole. Look, there is little you can do at this hour. You really need to sleep and to look at things in the morning. Can ya do that?
All I can say is gentle thoughts to ya. Gentle thoughts.
2006-12-30 20:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was he chatting with other women or worse other men romatically? Did you accuse him of cheating and he got pissed or was he cheating and you caught him?
Hopefully he comes back soon so you can discuss your situation like adults?
2006-12-30 20:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerhead90 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is that? So Sorry to hear about your situtation maybe it is for the best. good luck
2006-12-30 23:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy above me KNOWS what happened...Hmmmmm, maybe you should listent to him, huh?
2006-12-30 22:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by mary2148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋