she was drunk so i was to drop her at home but i took a advantage of that and i had a sex with her in my home. unfortunately i was not wearing condom. and after having sex i left her at her own home. after 3 months she was pregnent and she dont know taht i had a sex her. now as i m her best frnd so she told taht i m pregnent should i tell that her taht i had a sex her. will it be ok. she lives with her mother father n big bad bro,
2006-12-30 19:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
thats called rape go n help her or u can be in trouble. or simplie marry her
2006-12-30 19:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that was very mean of you to take advantage of your BEST FRIEND that night. You've officially set not just your life, your friend's, and each of your families on a serious setback.
It's not just about you, it's about the other people who got involved, especially the baby.
The most decent thing for you to do is to go and face the consequeces of your actions. If things turn out bad, then just live with it. I mean, what can you do? It's already there...
I would consider this as an irrepairable mistake on your part. But what you can't fix you can always make up for by learning from it and doing what you can instead of grovelling over it.
Good luck.
2006-12-30 20:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by sorcmagiwizlv99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you raped her. How are you going to get out of this one? That was not right of you in doing her that way. My sister was done like this (she is not pregnant though) but she was raped and do you think in anyway it is funny?
No i don't think it will be okay, people like you deserves to go to jail and you make me sick. Is that the only way you could have sex with her was to rape her? I wish i knew her so i could tell her myself. This is so pathetic that you could do someone else like this. What if you were drunk and some guy done something to you and gave you aids would it be okay then?
If you have it in you to tell her which i believe you won't don't you dare make her think she asked for it. Don't tell her some big fake story that she was all over you telling you she wanted to have sex with you.
How does it feel to have sex with an unconscious body?
2006-12-30 19:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you are a person with a heart, you will tell her what happened. Even though alcohol does decrease your inhibitions, what happened was a bad choice and you could be prosecuted. It is your responsibility because you created a life and being with her. You should support her in any decision whether it be adoption, abortion, or termination or your parental rights because she did not consent, and it is wrong to violate people in this manner. You are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to be an adult.
2006-12-30 20:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't want to cuss you out or anything, but no, that is not "okay", just to have sex with someone while they're unconscoius(I'm guessing since she doesn't know). You mentioned she is your best friend? You must tell her, regardless of the consequences. You've done something horrible and you have to face the music.
2006-12-30 19:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You raped her!
You could get into serious trouble for that. But since she is your so-called best friend, you should do the right thing and tell her the truth and support her and the baby.
2006-12-30 19:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE.... you should tell her... no women who is pregnant should have to wonder the father of her child... and you should tell her that you had sex with her you shouldn't keep those kinds of things from her....and you should also ask her if she was sleeping with anybody else.....the baby might not be yours if that's the case.....if shes really your best friend she wont be mad for to long....plus she might need you by her side. tell her its for the better..
2006-12-30 23:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by bribri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be chopped into pieces if you tell her. There you spend 5 years in jail plus 2 whip aiming at your butt.
2006-12-30 19:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by SKyLaR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was rape. I doubt she and her family will be very understanding at all. Chances are, you're going to have a big legal problem.
2006-12-30 19:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Enceladus 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok your took advantage of her nad she trusted you, you have to tell her you did it as she would want to know who the father of the bady is and if she places charges you shoudl ahve thougth before you took advantage of her, be responiasable and own up to ypur action before it to late
2006-12-30 19:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by pen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋