I have been watching alot of TLC and discovery channels and I been seeing all these women go through pregnancy and child birth and evern since then Iv been saying im never having kids,Me and my boyfriend have been together for ahwile and we do want kids soon but im reallt scared now, it sounds funny but its true i love kids so much but now im second guessing myself about having any! Can anyone explain to me if pregnancy is horrible or a wonderful time and how do you feel being pregnant..(actually it was the labor part that freaked me out..lol..but it just seems sooo painful!)
2006-12-30 19:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by abella_03 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Theres nothing greater in this world then bringing a part of yourself and the person you love into it... being pregnant is a great blessing... the labor part differs for everyone, mine wasn't a horrible experience... its ok sweetie, when you are truly ready to have a baby, its the best thing in this world.
2006-12-30 19:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking at the wrong sort of pregnancy 'porn.'
I don't get those shows.
For example:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lithotomy_position
"However, the position is not conducive to a smooth labor as it constricts the birth canal, puts pressure on the coccyx, prevents the fetal ejection reflex from occurring, and does not allow the mother to move during the process, therefore increasing pain in labor. Today, few birth centres or labour wards in Western countries use the lithotomy position for active labour. One notable exeception, however, is the United States, where the lithotomy position remains common for active labor."
Why on earth so many women are apparently into lying on their backs, especially on television, I have no idea. It really does make it look like a lousy experience.
I'm not saying it's a fantastic time, but try Googling something like "water birth" for less of that, uh -- well, go to YouTube and search for "monty python miracle of birth," which isn't too far removed from the shows you mention.
2006-12-31 07:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what luvie. Going through the labour is the best part!! True. Even if it really hurts . Because at the end of the day your there and your partner or friend.Having that moment togethor is breathtaking to say the least.
I had 2cm diluated 24 hrs before the docs broke my water, I had an eight hour labouir from the time they broke my water.
But you know what i'd do it all again if God would let me ( trying for five years for 2nd).
When you at last give birth to your beautiful baby all the pain and getting a wobbly belly are all worth it. When you look at your baby for the first time, its... beautiful. Really dont be scared just think every bit of pain is worth it to meet your bundle of joy. x
2006-12-31 04:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by divstr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to scary you but there is a plus too. For me pregnancy was horrible was miserable the whole time, was on bed risk like 90% I was what they call a high risk. I was in labor 32 hours alone with no family, but in the end I came out of it with the most wonderful miracle anyone can ask for and of course all the pain, tears, and fears was worth. If you love kids anything you go through will be worst it when you look into the eyes of your child.
2006-12-31 03:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please don't let the labor part scare you so much, there are a number of ways you can get all or part of the pain blocked. Having a child is one of the most wonderful things you can do in this life second only to going through this life with someone you want to have children with. Good Luck
2006-12-31 03:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by tpbthigb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving birth is a wonderful happening. Its nothing to be afraid of. Sure labour part is not always the best part. You soon forget about the pain and agony when you hold that bundle of joy for the first time.Having a supportive partner and another person there helps.
2006-12-31 03:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above post. It's just a part of what us women have to go through if we want children.
Just a side note: I would repost this message in the morning. You're likely to get lots of informative answers than now.
2006-12-31 03:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Yay for Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancey always sems horrible buts its beautiful. Yes is a slight pain but noting that you wouldn't feel from a really bad period day. They have pain killers and shots so you'll feel the pressure but not the pain. Don't let the scared feels stop you from having beautiful children adn raising you're own sons and daughters.
2006-12-31 03:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by sara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are an AWFUL LOT of children who NEED homes ... Ever thought about adoption?
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2003/4/22a/article_01.htm
Making Your Pregnancy Safer ...
http://www.watchtower.org/e/20030108/article_01.htm
2006-12-31 03:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋