Okay, so there's this guy friend of mine and we've known each other about 6 months now, and well not to long ago, maybe about a week and a half ago he confessed to me he's feelings to me. I had told him at first that I had feelings for him only as a friend, but now I constantly think about him and I miss talking to him.The problem is that I'm afraid to hurt him, what do you think I should do, give him a chance, or try to get to know him better?..=(
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2006-12-30 19:35:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe you should just get to know him better
2006-12-30 19:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you give him a chance you are getting to know him better.
as far as weather or not you should? Probably not, it will be better for him in the long run, you see the reason you dont want to hurt his feelings is because you value him as a friend, not romantically. He thinks it is or wants more. If you were to take him on as more, ultimately he would just get disappointed when you go for someone who you are attracted to romantically.
You miss him because he was nice and made you feel good like one of your girlfriends, but from what you say the spark of attraction was not there.
2006-12-31 04:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Akshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep him as a friend for now, I think you miss him b/c you like the fact that he likes you that way(but he likes u for only 6 mo. is a little too early to tell, he is only attracted to you. You should hang out w/ him in a group of ppl ,that way, you can see how he interacts w/ others, and you are able to find out if he's right for you as a friend or beyond friends.
2006-12-31 17:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by cuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him a chance. You can get to know him while you date, that way if yall do date it won't get boring too fast because you will still be learning new things about each other. Just let him know how you feel, his feelings couldn't have changed from one day to the next.
2006-12-31 03:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about love? Not after knowing him only six months. It takes at least two years to know someone that well. If you are thinking about having sex with him, you're stupid. What he means is he wants sex. If he really cares for you, he won't expect sex before marriage. If you have to do that to keep him, you don't have him in the first place. You can't keep what you ain't got.
2006-12-31 03:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you hurt him--do you know Karate??? Why not let it develop and see if it goes anywhere. Get past all this, give it a shot if you want to. He will have a lifetime of hurt--he'll get over it. Now move !!!!
2006-12-31 03:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know him better (as a friend), then, if he suits you, as it seems he does, go ahead and give him a chance.
The heart is all about wonder and exploring. Just do so responsibly.
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2006-12-31 04:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy a chance
2006-12-31 03:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Little Arthur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up and ask him if he wants to hang out with you. You can still be friends and if anything happens from there,then so be it. good luck to you.
2006-12-31 03:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give that guy a chance
2006-12-31 05:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by candy 07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋