Is there legal action that can be taken in regards to these visits? My very manipulative legally seperated spouse and I have three children together. He was appointed visitation as every other weekend from 7p.m. Friday to 5p.m. Sunday with our four and three year old and 12p.m. to 5p.m. Saturday with our one year old who is still nursing. He contacted my older daughter and cried saying he wanted to spend the day with our son for his birthday and snuck a visit by pulling on the heartstrings of my daughter.
2006-12-30 18:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by nielson_aimee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So your oldest daughter is 4 and the ex snuck a visit by pulling on her heartstrings? HOW? It’s not like she’s a teenager and she can sneak out of the house to see him.
I’m assuming he’s not a danger to them or unfit since you didn’t say the visits were supervised.
So let’s break it down…there are 336 hours in a 2-week period. Of that he gets approximately 46 hours with the 3 and 4 year olds and 5 hours with the 1 year old (maybe 10 hours IF his Saturday is every week). And he wants more time? THE NERVE!
2006-12-30 19:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son cried on his birthday and on Christmas because his dad didn't even call him. I don't know your whole situation, but you didn't say anything negative about your ex. I think you should be glad he is still in your children's lives, and wants to be. I would give anything so my son wouldn't be so heart broken over his dad. You and your husband may no longer want to be together, so don't put your children under any more strain than you have to. You both are still parents even if your no longer going to be married.
2006-12-30 19:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by lola15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a "legal" reason why you would want to limit your children's contact with their father? Is he abusive (physically, emotionally or verbally), or does he fill their heads with Anti-Mom propoganda? Is he on drugs, have a drinking problem, or a sexual predator/registered sex offender? If so, then consult your attorney. Otherwise, put on your big girl panties and act like someone who's mature enough to be raising three kids in a fair and responsible manner.
2006-12-30 19:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can call your attorney and ask for a court hearing and deal with in the courts. I'd not push the issue, stop being controlling and using the kids to get back at your husband. It will only cause a great many heart aches in the future.
2006-12-30 23:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can take legal action, but as long as he is not hurting the children, why would you wanna do that?.Is it wrong for him wanting to spend time with his children? Most men could care less. If he is not abusive towards them, then what is the problem?
2006-12-30 19:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have supervised visitation rights with the one year old? If he does and there is cause then maybe....but if not then there is probably not much you can do but you should document document document and the next time you have to go to court (I am assuming you have to because I do) and get another lawyer, ask him and give him the documentation --dates, and specific detailed descriptions.
2006-12-30 19:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the place you reside. In Texas it relatively is against the regulation to smoke in a automobile with a toddler in it. i do no longer comprehend of any rules approximately interior your very own residence however. in my opinion, i might bypass back to courtroom and characteristic the custody contract replaced if he did no longer quit smoking round her.
2016-11-25 02:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by laverna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a piece of ****. Why would it bother you that your children are getting some extra time with their father? Did your dad not love you or something? I really mean this, I HOPE YOU GO TO HELL *****!!!
2006-12-30 20:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know your situation but I would be happy that my children's father would go to such extents to spend time with them.
2006-12-30 18:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by micg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋