2006-12-30 18:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by keana_rj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the person wants you to let go, fighting for them is a waste of your time......and could cost you in self esteem. Besides, you can't own a person, people have a little something called free will, so who exactly would you be fighting against? The one you claim to love or the one/thing that you percieve to be standing in your way of being with him/her? Often, letting go is an expressoin of love....in the deepest most selfless way.
2006-12-30 18:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you would be, "Who or what are you fighting with?"
If you are fighting another woman for him, then he should maybe have to prove something to you. If your fighting your feelings for him as in maybe i do or maybe i don't then sit back and time will tell. If the two of you are fighting each other and you really love him, then stop yelling it out or fighting and just listen to him. The fighting may be keeping you from hearing eacch other.
2006-12-30 18:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by lanna clause 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let go when you know deep in your heart that they don't want you. If they do want you, there is no need to have to fight for them.
2006-12-30 18:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by katme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.
Yes, there are times you need to fight for someone, and there are times you need to let go.
Here's my litmus test. If this guy loves you sincerely, and is ready to take care of you, the you can fight fir him. If the guy is a movie star just out to have fun and then he runs off, let the guy fly away.
2006-12-30 18:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all relationships the feeling has to be mutual...that is both of you must WANT to be with the other and respect one another, if ever, either of you have the desire to leave or is attracted to someone else, then the relationship is doomed. There is absoluely no point in 'fighting' for it.
2006-12-30 18:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i said its the best time to let go of someone when theres been cheating involved or they just totally lost interst in you and when to fight for them is when u no theres something really to fight for and you ask how wil u no if its right? your heart wil tell you
2006-12-30 18:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let go when you've had enough, and you fight for them when you need more.
2006-12-30 18:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I'd let my guy go if I'm completely sure there's no future for the two of us. I'd fight for him if he loves me and I love him back. I'd let go of him if he's miserable with me. I'd fight for him if he's ready to fight for me back. I'd let go of him if the relationship caused me to lose my identity. And I'd fight for him if it means a happy ending.
2006-12-30 18:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by meOW! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they leave, let them go. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, not someone who needs to be won over.
Winning someone back is usually short lived, too. Maybe it is time for a fresh start?
Hope this helps.
2006-12-30 18:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole H. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and instincts,. in which case would that person be happier in life? how does that person feel about you? whats happening to make you ask that question? think about it
2006-12-30 18:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋