I have always been afraid of that, meeting someone great, and not being able to say no to her.
I have a fear of commitment, so. . . . .
2006-12-30 18:15:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She cant force you unless she has a shotgun...Don't be scared, we don't bite....much :)
2006-12-30 18:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No - a woman can't "force" a man to marry her...
She can give ultimatums though. You may be afraid of commitment, but if you find a great girl - she won't wait for you forever. Unless of course she's not into getting married either.
2006-12-31 02:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by karespromise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lacking balls to say no to anything don't make you much of a man, now does it?
Truth of the matter is you sound like you can be manipulated by the charms of a woman. Think about it.....do you really want to live your life that way. If you allow a woman to manipulate you to marry her what will stop her from manipulating you in the marriage. Sounds like a recipe for disaster.
2006-12-31 02:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by r_a_i_n_m_a_n_5_9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not a person can only do what you allow them to do and you should never feel like anyone should force you into marrying them because that's starting off on the wrong foot already.
2006-12-31 02:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible...it's called manipulation.
I think you should try to get over that fear and be more trusting yet keep your guard up. Try to start trusting people little by little, you don't have to do it all in one day or month or whatever. Commitment-phobia isn't pleasant...my last relationship lasted for a little more than a year and I always felt terrible from time to time because he never made a commitment to me...
2006-12-31 02:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well basically they nag nag nag almost all men they marry, then initiate the divorce in 75% of cases (and cash in).
And anyway, they certainly *can* force you to pay child support, even if they lied about being on the pill which is basically the same as being married, then divorced, then paying alimony.
You need a dose of strong medicine to strengthen your resolve. Marriage can be very exploitative these days. Check out:
http://dontgetmarried.proboards75.com/
Before you make ANY kind of decision.
2006-12-31 03:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Bullet 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
King Cobra, Colt 45 and Schlitz Malt Liquor seem to work wonders! Watch out. Old English, 800 IT HAS THE POWER!
2006-12-31 14:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meaningless sex is for you then, my friend. Being single is fun. But---there is something to be said for being in a committed relationship and all of the experiences that ensue. If you continue dating you have to be prepared for that moment when you meet the right girl--and she will deserve to be held in high regard. Otherwise, you'll need to keep it to one-night stands--for the woman's sake as well as yours--and you'll need to tell that one-night stand girl that one night is as far as it goes--before you "do it". Don't tell her you'll call her unless you mean it.
Your other option is to introduce yourself to Rosie the Palm and her five sisters and call it a day.
2006-12-31 03:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mythical Creature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy
2006-12-31 02:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be forced to marry, You have to be mature enough to say no if its not right and yes if it is and if your not sure be honest about it. theres no better time to see if you can work out problems then before you sayi do and find out you did not
2006-12-31 02:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if a woman is not good enough to marry, please don't sleep with her because you could be making a commitment to a child and not a woman.
2006-12-31 02:18:05 · answer #11 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋