I am engaged to my boyfriend of almost 5 years and since then, every 5 mins he is calling me and never wants anything i mean not that nothing is wrong with that but its starting to get annoying and I did say something to him about it already but it hasnt seemed to stop and just last night he came by my house unexpectantly at 1:30 in the morning trying to come thru my window, and he says that he wonders about me. Should I be the one wondering? He is acting like I am going to cheat on him.
2006-12-30 17:55:58 · 7 answers · asked by sexybackmami07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have never cheated on him before. We have a son who just turned 2 years old. He knows how I used to be in the past.
2006-12-30 18:24:30 · update #1
i do not think this is normal have you done something to give him the idea you are not happy or you might be cheating on him or did he do something stupid and now he is afraid and thinking " hay if i did it so could she" and now he is worried i think you need to sit down and talk about it because something is up for sure.
2006-12-30 18:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, r u really sure u should be with this guy? i had a bf kinda like that, and it only got worse... it started with phone calls, texting, emailing.. then he started telling me what 2 do, eventually he hit me, then again and again... i finally got the corage 2 break up with him but its not an easy road, so no i dont think its all that normal... but then again he could just be thinking of u none stop?
2006-12-31 02:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Whitney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a clingy, potentially controlling man in your life. Are you sure you want to marry someone like that? If you get married its only going to get worse. My husband is like that and I'm one step away from killing him.
2006-12-31 02:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is very insecure, And you really needto get it addressed before you get married. These things trnd to get worse. Be careful
2006-12-31 02:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be aware.
maybe he has trust issues or he has a clingy dis-order.
i mean it sounds thoughtful, but you must talk to him about it, or probably break up, if you really are getting hurt.
_if you want, do the same thing to him and see what happens_
2006-12-31 02:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by me_myself_mwah. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not normal, could he have a guilty conscience? sounds like the marriage should be postponed to me.
2006-12-31 02:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt consider his behavior as normal at all......
2006-12-31 02:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋