My dog of 18 years passed away. About three days ago, she experienced her first epilepsy. She had two more, we had her on medication. She was in so much pain, crying a lot, had temporary blindnes. She woke up yesterday with a lot of pain, her crying was very loud, and she could barely move. She was suffering too much. She has been through so much that it really broke my heart watching her suffer (6 tumor operations + chemo). My family and I decided to put her to sleep. It would have been very selfish of my part to keep her alive, knowing that she was suffering in pain. I said a little prayer, gave her kisses, and she looked at me in pain, staring at me...that image will remain for the rest of my life. I left the room because I did not want to see her when the doctor put her to sleep. She was a trooper, a family member who was with us for 18 years. 18 years where the majority of the dogs do not live to that age. We really took care of her. But I know that she is in a better place...
2006-12-30 17:49:34 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really cannot believe she passed away...I could really feel her, I really don't want to go to sleep and wake up and see her bed empty, no greetings and no smile, no tail moving :(
2006-12-30 17:50:01 · update #1
Here is your hug. I feel your pain I had to have my cat put to sleep and she was with me for like forever but started having strokes and stopped eating so it was best and I also could not bear to watch as they put her down. I kissed her, loved her and the last thing I remember is her meowing as I left her with someone she did not know
2006-12-30 17:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry about your dog. I have two young dachshunds, both around 2 years, and I dread the day when something happens to them. They are very much a part of my family and I care about them very much. Your dog led a long life filled with the love that your family provided. That is a great life, so try to take comfort in that. You did the right thing by easing the pain. She may be gone but I'm sure that she will always hold a special place in your heart and you will be able to look back on the fond memories that you have.
2006-12-30 17:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by smokinjoexxiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really feel so bad for you...i have a dog who just turned 7 a few days ago and thank the lord she is healthy, i cannot imagine living without her....but, as you realized, you were not selfish. your dog had been through quite a lot in its life- tumor operations and chemo are things that no one, human or animal should have to go through. now, though, the paradox of suffering is gone, and your dog is happy and resting peacefully. although you won't see the sweet faces and puppy faces that you once did, you can be assured that your pooch isn't suffering anymore. you made the right and the responsible choice. i know that it is extremely difficult right now for you to hear this or read about such a topic, but my friend's dog recently passed away and he seemed to cope better by buying another dog- of the same breed. it eased his pain, as it kind of brought him back to how it was when his old dog was a puppy...it took the edge off of his first dog's passing. please, may you have peace in knowing that your dog is now at ease and is looking over you now....
2006-12-30 18:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by bigD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard for a person when they loose their dog specially when they love it so much, my advice is that she should really think long and hard before adopting again, and please tell her she gave Lylah the best thing her love and devotion, and that really all they ask for, and sadly it was just her time to go, she is in doggy heaven now and she is okay, tell her it's not her fault and that she should feel good knowing that Lylah loved her so much and as for the new puppy I'm sure that Lylah would want her mommy to move on she knows that she will never forget her and I'm sure that she would be very happy to now that her mommy is giving other doggies like her a great home. I'm sorry for her loss. You are a great friend. PS it takes time they are like children and I know for me I feel very responsible for anything that happens to my baby. Also I think it's awsome you adopt.
2016-05-22 23:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your sadness and I am sorry. I just had one of my cats put to sleep on Dec 10, and I have missed her ever since. If its any consolation to you, you did the right thing by having your dog put down. Look at it this way, 18 yrs is a long time for any pet to live, so you must have alot of fond memories to hold onto. Here is a cyber hug for you!
2006-12-30 17:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your lose. But think about it this way, NO MORE PAIN.
I think you and your family made the right choice. No one want to suffer not even us. The love you have in your heart for you dog can be past on to another dog that need some TLC. What a way to give back. I know you need some time to grieve. Not to long , so you can past the LOVE on.
God, bless you and your family. My prayer are with your.
2006-12-30 17:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give you my sympathy and i feel for you, you have had a lot of great years with your dog and that is the best thing that you could have. It will take you awhile to get over it and i dont blame you 18 years is a long time. I wish you the best for the new year and plenty of hugs from me
2006-12-30 17:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understan where you are coming from. I had a cat for 18 years, and it broke my heart when she passed.
I don't know what city and State you are in, but in my town they have a greif support group for people that have lost pets. Call your local Humane Department they can probably put you in touch with someone. Good Luck to you, And here is a BIGGGGG
HUGGGGG!!!!!
2006-12-30 17:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. It will hurt for a while - all losses do. But in time, the pain will grow less, and you'll remember her in happier times more than the painful ones.
There's a poem called "The Rainbow Bridge" about losing a loved pet:
http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm
2006-12-30 17:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We had to put our dog down last year. We had her for 16 years. It was the only time we had taken her to the vet, where she wasnt shaking in fear. I think she knew he would allow her pain to go away. She looked up at us as much to say thank you. He gave her a shot and within seconds she was 'asleep'. My husband and I sobbed like babies as we held her. I truly understand your pain. Please accept my sincere hug.....
You will see her again, at the Rainbow Bridge!
2006-12-30 18:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋