Should I use a woman 2 hav my kids then take the kids and then leave her?

Question

I think I want kids I just don't want a relationship with a female because i am blank.

Answer 1

Not that this is right, but don't women do this to men all the time? They have kids with men who they are not in a relationship with and then soak them for child support.
It surprises me at all the negative responses when a man says it. I don't think the poster is being serious, it makes me think of all the people who have been used just for child support. No offense to anyone out there.

Answer 2

Point blank--you are just a pig of a man! I'm sorry to say that but what are kids without a mother????? What would you have done without your mother??? The whole point behind having kids is to have a family..and uh....that includes the MOTHER!!! And why in the world would you want to do all the parenting by yourself with no one there to help you? Do you have any idea what parenting involves?? Apparently you don't or you wouldn't even be asking this question. Sorry for being so blunt, but I think you have some more thinking to do. If you don't want a woman, then don't have kids. If you're gay (and there's nothing wrong with that) then just adopt a baby.

Answer 3

You have no conception of what it means to have a child. A child needs a Mother and a Father. Anyway, the woman will fight you for custody and more than likely she will win. If you want children you can adopt them. I think though I would think twice before messing up some poor childs life.

Answer 4

Definitely not! I think you should consider the feelings of the children as well. How would they view you if you took them away from their mother? Adoption may be a possibility for you if you don't want a woman in your life. Part of being a father is doing what is best for the children.

Answer 5

You will find surrogate mothers who will be willing to bear a child for you for payment of certain amount. After the birth of the child and payment you will have no relationship with the mother. But a surrogate mother always has a right to refuse to give the child to the father and refuse payment. In such circumstances you are helpless. I would suggest you to adopt a poor abandoned child and make the child happy.

Answer 6

That's just mean to do that to a woman. Unless you find a woman that doesn't want anything to do with kids. Have you ever consider adoption? There are plenty of kids who wants to be loved.

Answer 7

That is probably the worse thing you could do to a woman why don't you be honest and if you want a woman to have your children and that's all then maybe you can receive that precious gift by telling the truth instead of being that ugly about it.

Answer 8

No; do not play with this thing called "love" okay? It is a very 'holy' feeling and if it is just for some motives, it will bring unpleasant experience to both sides

What you can do is to adopt some kids, just like some celebrities do (Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt).

Answer 9

good luck with that plan ... maybe you should start with a reality check of what you do want and what kind of a person would enter into that situation, let alone have kids only to subject them to that kind of emotional trauma?? I'd suggest finding a surrogate or adoption but I really don't know if you'd be competent as a parent!

Answer 10

why would u want to do soemthing like that? omg. You think it would be that easy to take the kids n go away. Yeah right. It ain't easy and won't be easy. like the previous women said "adopt a child" but actually when I think about it, you shouldn't. Doesn't seem like you would be able to.