Hate virgins?

Question

I noticed women who are not virgins tend to hate/dislike women who are virgins. I've noticed they often treat them like they are naive children, stupid, or backwards regardless of the reasons or cultural background of the woman. Where does the hate come from, or is it hate, if not then what is it?

Answer 1

i've never noticed that sort of behavior among women who are nto in high school, although it is rare to meet adults who are virgins. from what i've seen a lot of people respect for people who wait to have sex. women who have problems with virgins probably just regret the decisions they made in that department.

Answer 2

First, anytime you indicate all of something, one has only to find one example to prove it wrong. It would have been acceptable to say why do some women who are not....

I would also tend to think that those who do dislike the virgins are more likely to be gender feminist who may feel guilty that they are not virgins.

I would also suggest that we focus on BOTH sides. A woman can not lose her virginity without help. It takes two. The same standards should apply to both. If you encourage your sons to sleep around, remember they are sleeping with someones daughter or someones sister. You do not want your daughter sleeping around do you?

True love....WAITS....

WHAT ABOUT ABSTINENCE?
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Remember also, there is a price to pay for any wrong doing and it is always more then we can afford.

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More important, for those who have guilt feelings about something they have done...there is one way to get rid of those guilt feelings and become guiltless. Read the link below.

Answer 3

I don't hate virgins... but I don't like it when they pretend they've got some kind of special trait because there's some experience they lack. I don't hate adults who haven't learned to read, either, but I don't think they should be *proud* of it.

If it's against their religion to have sex, that's fine... but I'm not going to pretend that it makes them a better person than someone whose religion celebrates life and love and the physical expression of that love.

It's like if someone says, "I've never eaten sugar! I'm keeping my body pure! I won't eat any sugar until it's the frosting on my wedding cake!"

Ooookay... and why should I care? Unless I was offering that we go out for donuts, in which case, it's a nuisance.

Answer 4

No one hates virgins. I have a great deal of respect for anyone that waits.

EDIT: To goldenangelheart. It takes 2 people not Just women. sometimes women grow up in famies without ever hearing I love you. never so when they grow up they look for love. and sometimes they make MISTAKES. It does not mean they are loose. it does NOT mean they are tramps. and why don't you say something about the men who LIE to women who are hurting and needing Love. does that make it right? why is it only the women who are tramps? WHY?

Answer 5

I for one have not experienced this sort of behaviour.May be some are like that because of the condition in which they are. or they regret about their past and think that these so called virgins are only pretending to be virgins.

Answer 6

Most people that loose their virginity at a young age later regret it, and it becomes easy for them to target and despise virgins.

It's kind of a jealous reaction towards them

Answer 7

For some it could be envy. I know some people tend to wish they could get it back. Jealously make people say, do and act in very unbecoming ways. But that's just my 2 cents. Happy New Year

Answer 8

in my opinion ther should be more virgens, thay are the smart ones no guy want a lose chick. havent you ever heard you cant make a hore a house wife? there are to many diseases out there to be so lose. thay dont respect a tramp. have respect for you"er self dont be a drive threw.