2006-12-30 17:18:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You would be considered gay by alot of people. But lets face the fact that sexuality is a spectrum not a multiple choice test. We are all human and humans are attracted to humans.
2006-12-30 17:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by mobius7019 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is unnecessary that if a guy does not have a sex with a woman but he is attracted to a woman's look or appearance he is considered as a gay. It is simply means that the guy is not ready to have such deep relatioship with a woman. He is not cripple, abnormal or have something wrong on him. He might be a good innocent guy. We should not compare a guy with the neccessity to have an affair with the opposite sex to comfirmed that he is a genuine guy. That kind of mindset is totally not true. It is wrong. For example, a guy is using a tissue packet and a handkerchief, could he be said that he is ladylike? No, we can't. Logically, we use tissue or handkerchief is to clean ourselves. We should not be influenced by the developed and narrow mindset whereby mostly girls use tissue packet and handkerchief. There are so many types of guy out there. Some are rough or rugged and some are soft. Soft does not mean that he is shemale or being girlish. It is just a reward of characteristics of their well being. Actually soft in certain issues is a good value. So do rough or rugged. It should not merely labelled as violence.
2006-12-31 01:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women find other women attractive because they say, "I wish I looked like that! Look at those awesome legs! I bet they'd come in handy!" I think that's normal.
However, if you are saying "My God...I'm getting a little moist looking at her legs. I can't stop looking at her because she's so beautiful. I wonder what her....well, you know." I think you would probably be fantasizing about being gay, or that you actually might be gay (or bi, whatever) if you're thinking sexual thoughts WHILE being attracted to her.
It's not like you're only straight after you've been physical with a man, so what's the difference? I was gay long before I'd even laid a finger on a woman ;)
2006-12-31 01:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - if every man was "physical" with every woman he was attracted to, it would be unending rape.
I am not in the least gay, and I see lots of women I am attracted to. However, I do nothing about it for reasons of my own (not telling).
Why gay? Why can't he be married or in a serious relationship? Why can't he be just shy? Or tired? Or so not on the same social strata? Or perhaps of a religious persuasion that teaches against sexual promiscuity? Or perhaps he values his virginity and is saving it for his marriage? I can think of several reasons why a man would not be physical with an attractive woman that doesn't automatically mean he is gay.
2006-12-31 01:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by d_f_cornish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you're not gay. You just admire women beauty, which is perfectly normal. When were growing up we all thought our mother was beautiful, Barbie, and all the female models in those days. Women are beautiful, and I'm straight as can be. Most of the people who claim to be gay and lesbians aren't really at heart.
2006-12-31 02:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition of attracted. I can admire another woman's beauty but I most certainly wouldn't want to be intimate with her as I would a man. Women are well known for doing such things anyway just that usually it's out of jealousy and just act like they don't like what they see.
You wouldn't see me blatantly staring at another woman's butt or boobs but if she has a nice shape or if her clothes look good on her I will notice it.
2006-12-31 01:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what someone else said: would not or could not? The definition of sexual orientation is not the intention of having sex, but the ability to be sexually aroused and have a sexually satisfying experience with that gender, whether or not you act on it. If you could, but would never, you're still bisexual or gay. But if you couldn't, but you do happen to find them attractive, then you're just like most people!
2006-12-31 01:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. Personally I think being gay or being straight depends on your sexual attraction. Its normal to admire peoples physical appearance and it says nothing about your sexuality.
2006-12-31 01:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by ←Shea→ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
nahhhhh.. thats just societys' views making their way to your head.. don't let that stuff get into your head.. people can be attractive, male or female.. sometimes theres a crossover between gay and straight.. you realize your gay and you change your perspectives.. and sometimes you just have feelings that have yet to be discovered.. and sometimes, its just the hormones lol.. dont stress out.. just follow your impulses.. mind you.. dont get physical without permission;) thats harassment lol;)
2006-12-31 01:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by l2onaldinho1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be considered a GAY if you feel more pleasure in sexual affairs with boys. Else not.
2006-12-31 04:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋