I am not happy I am just ok. Like its a nice person and everything but its not that your the whole world type feeling is something wrong that I am not happy?
2006-12-30 17:02:24 · 8 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
then don't get married.most people when they "find out" they are getting married are in love and happy.
2006-12-30 17:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy,just OK,may be you are NOT happy! But sometimes it takes times for the feelings of happiness or unhappiness to sink in,but only you can know why you are feeling this way.If I'd be marrying the man I love so much,I would be very happy,But make your own decision or take your time.Don't get married if you don't love the person,and love is not just the superficial attraction,so just sit back and think for a while.
2006-12-31 01:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was incredibly happy and excited to spend the rest of my life witht he man I married a year and a half ago. We're still very much happy and I couldn't imagine my life without him. If you feel anything less than that...and you marry the man...you're on the road to divorce. It would be so much easier to end things NOW. Or let him know that you are just not ready for that next step.
2006-12-31 01:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Missourifolk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO love is not a feeling. Love is what remains when the romantic feelings disappear (and in marriage, they will decrease or diminish, but part of the fun and challenge is to keep the fires of romance burning). And yes, we were happy - elated is more the word, but bringing happiness after the wedding is something you each work at daily.
2006-12-31 01:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.K. this is a very very serious answer!
I feel you need one!
If it doesn't sit right with you?...like something is kind of missing even like 20%, inside you! Its not right.
That is our gut feelings....we are able to feel 100% or not, and you are lucky@!!!!! that you have this feeling now!
Lets say you marry, and after your feeling got a tiny bit bigger....Your too late!
If you have to soul search! do it now, and better not marry~~
then worrie about peoples feelings, and all the arrangements...who cares?
BE CAREFUL!...o.k. do not jump in too deep.If you want to delay the wedding....make it for same day, next yr..!!
2006-12-31 01:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mere thought of marriage makes my stomach turn. If anyone even suggested it, I wouldn't look at them the same way ever again.
2007-01-01 06:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I guess it was because when we started going out together, we knew we'll end up here one day anyway. He didn't even propose, we just decided toegether that we'll tie the knot.
2006-12-31 01:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
rethink your answer to him/her.
personally i was ecstatic even though it is just paper and we'd love each other with or without it, it was still very special that he wanted that with me.
2006-12-31 01:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋