a friend and i had a fight bcos she found out that i liked her more than a friend from my actions and also that i don't give her enuf space. she said she only likes me as a friend. i asked if we could stay friends but she said no, bcos she's new to relationships and it got weird she found out about my feelings for her.
we didn't speak or see each other again over a month. but on my birthday, she greeted me through email and said some things about how she was on that day (she's on a holiday overseas). so i replied back with thnx, merry xmas and happy new year and said some things about my day as well. it seems that she's trying to make up with me, but i don't know wat to do.
call or email her wen she comes back?
email her again and see how her holiday is going?
wait for her to contact me again?
2006-12-30 16:58:16 · 12 answers · asked by fitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would wait if i were u....its simple...dont set urself up again 2 get ur feelings hurt...if she was a real friend anyway she would have still been ur friend regardless if she liked u more than a friend or not bc thats wat real friends do...they dont suppose to treat u like a stranger just bc u r sharing how u feel..
2006-12-30 17:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait partner ! You can't make someone love you. If it is meant to be it will happen. Love is not mechanical, nor can it be fixed with nuts and bolts. You will know it if she is the one, for she will feel the same way about you. Do remain friends as a starter. At least the both of you are keeping in touch.
2006-12-31 01:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey big fella, you better wait till she comes home and see where it goes--NATURALLY--let time work for you. OOOH I might lose her---so what -- she the only girl around? Learn from your mistakes--that's life...move on and better luck next time--I say once it's over--it's done. Stop being a whiney pathetic boy---grow up and don't make the same mistakes a second time. When you see her, say hi...and keep moving.
2006-12-31 01:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get too personal, don't hang off of her, don't be needy. keep it short and to the point like oh that's nice to hear, happy new year ttfn. you know like that,... and only 1 email not more!
2006-12-31 01:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to contact you. The reason she probably doesn't like you like that is because you're too needy.
2006-12-31 01:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by DJ Deep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey darl you said it yourself... she wants space so my suggestion would be to wait for her to contact you again. Good luck...
2006-12-31 01:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by angelicrulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to contact you again and tell her you really missed her and you would never want to do anything to lose the friendship you have with her
2006-12-31 01:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie miller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her sparingly and then continue to talk more and more if she keeps contacting you, and if you do become good friends don't worry about losing her, best to cherish the time.
2006-12-31 01:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER!!! i was in the same situation, but i made the wrong choice, if you really still care about her then talk to her.
2006-12-31 01:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her "friendly" call back and see how she's doing wont hurt.
2006-12-31 01:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋