How to talk to people so people would talk to you? LIke you as a friend and invite you to parties.?

Question

I saw a lot of people that got interest by others. And people cheer them. Some people have friends in a group. And they all have people sending them comments through facebook or myspace. Talking to them at lunch, having parties. Getting along well. But for me i just don't know why no one cares about me. Everyone don't even look upon me.The reason why this happens is because i do not know how to make friends. They just talk to their friends and stuff, and they hang out everyday. i feel like loner. What are the ways to make friends that they can know me well?

Answer 1

People like others that like them and show an interest in them. Look around and see people that aren't already with others, and these will be good candidates for friendship. Try making a few casual comments first, and if they make eye contact and answer back then they are probably willing to get to know you better. Ask them questions about themselves because EVERYONE likes to talk about themselves. Draw them out by asking more specific questions about their answers. Listen to what they say and don't just be thinking of what you can say next. Before you approach someone, think of some things to say to keep the conversation going. If you are not involved in some after school activities, by joining some maybe you can make friends.

Answer 2

If you want people to like you, get them to talk about themselves. Ask questions about them, be very interested.
Find something about them that you can complement them on.....their dress or their hair, skin, smile etc.
Always look them in the eye when you speak to them.
Learn about their interests.
And lastly be yourself and be happy about being you. Love yourself and it will be easy for others to love you.