2006-12-30 16:45:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't believe so. It's a different type of love. One is romantic by nature and the other is nature by design. (or one would hope) I have no children so can only assume this to be true, but looking at married couples with their children, I don't see a husband loving her less, but more, because they now have the shared responsibility to over see their child's upbringing.
2006-12-30 16:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes this is worse when the breakup is fairly new. I'd say it would take about 2 years to get back in the groove. After time, these memories will fade as long as he lets them. By continuing to bring it up, he's reinforcing it and living it all over again. He's had a bad experience and it's always easier to blame the other person. Usually it takes two to tango, so it takes two to quit dancing, too. It would be nice if he could rise above it and get a different attitude, perhaps through counseling. A "that was then, this is now" attitude would help a lot.
2016-03-29 01:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times I have been put in my place when it comes to my husbands daughter. I have sometimes been a pain in the *** in the name of competition. As time went on not only did i learn to love the the child , but I also realized I ran second. That was OK! Atleast at first. Now five years later I wonder where I stand at all. We recently had to refinance so she could have a car. In the past we have spent thousands on her teeth. I not only suopported these options , I also loved the ideas as long as I was included. Now she does not need my attention and lately if I stay quiet and agree without conflict my husband pats me on the back. I want passion and respect back. How do I find it during these difficult years? I want my sexy man back!!!!!!!
2006-12-30 17:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think it only makes the love stronger, if of course theres love to start out with, I think after a child is born the man can be a bit strange but only because of all the changes that go on with such a wonderful new addition to the family...
2006-12-30 16:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he begins to love her a little differently...in more of a matronly respect. I know my husband loves me.....but when I took on the role of mother to his child....it changed some. Not necessarily less though.
2006-12-30 17:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man's priorities and his actions. About a few years after I was born, my dad started looking for reasons to not come home until he finally left. If the guy seems to spend more and more time at work, then probably his priorities are totally out of whack. It all depends on the kind of guy he is...most girls just wish it is the good kind of guy and not the bad one...
2006-12-30 16:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. My husband and I just recently had are first child 7 months ago and he loves me more than when we first got married. Most men see the hardship that women have to go through and they really see how strong we are and that we did this all for them. They obiviously can't do it themselves and it puts a love in their hearts for us like never before.
2006-12-30 16:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by pmsajones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2006-12-30 16:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ! it made me love her even more for giving me such a gift
2006-12-30 16:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by injundick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't have children,,,,silly...
2006-12-31 11:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋