I love him a lot,he loves me even more,but sex hasn't been great. I used to be aroused and climax with my previous boyfriend but with him even if I think Im aroused i find it hard to get an orgasm.He has hard time retaining the hardness so many a times i stay there frustrated. Please help,what to do? I love him very much and want him to satisfy me.
2006-12-30 16:37:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
My husband and I have been married for 12 years, I'm 30 and he's 54. Just within the last couple of years we have been experiencing this same problem. It's the age thing, we know, we went to the doctor. We decided against the little blue pill. Now, he makes sure I get mine before he even gets close to putting it in me. We use toys and lots of oral. Sure, we had to give up the nights of hours of festive love making, but that doesn't mean we love each other any less.
If he loves you as much as you say he does, he would do the same for you.
and remember, sex isn't the only part of a relationship. Have fun doing other things, or discover something new together, like hiking or sightseeing.
2006-12-30 16:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to sit down and talk with him about the idea of Cialis, not Viagra because that will cause men to see blue, but Cialis is good. You could also look into getting a pen*s ring, this will hold the blood in his pen*s so he can retain an erection longer.
Another thing until you can get one of these things is let him know that if he doesn't get you off before he is done, then you wish he would stimulate you by hand or with a tool after he climaxes until you do since this is just leaving you frustrated. That's what my husband and I do when we have this problem. I have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, so it's difficult for me to orgasm sometimes. When he can't do it before he's done, then he finishes by hand, or if I can't go any longer because of pain or exhaustion, then I finish him by hand. It's all in just making sure both are satisfied.
Just be sure and talk to him about this and find the best way to handle this with him. I wish you luck.
2006-12-30 18:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to check out enzyte .com you know the commercial with that guy bob. They can send you a free sample box for 30 days. He must be some kind of man oh well they say love is blind. I'm happy for the both of you. Lots of luck.
2006-12-30 16:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by jmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women orgasm with intercourse and since this is the case with your new lover you need to work on ways for him to satisfy you once he has orgasmed. There are several things you can do such as let him give you oral until you orgasm or let him stimulate your clit with his fingers till you orgasm. Also you may want to consider trying a cock ring to help him retain his erection better.
2006-12-30 16:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some Viagra
2006-12-30 17:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Robert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to a sex store and get a c ock ring for hubby, it will help to keep him hard longer.
2007-01-01 14:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by guest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a younger stud to take care of you on the side sweetie. I know you love your man but I'm sure you love hard dick too... you can have them seperate
2006-12-30 16:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hell my man is just fixing to turn thirty one and he already has this problem and that just sucks for me cuz then it means that things are just going to get worse
2006-12-30 16:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lara M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cialis and stand back
2006-12-30 16:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Shark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eat healthy, workout, viagra
2006-12-30 16:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋