Ok, so my life story;
I'm a pretty girl, people call me "model beautiful", and tell me i have a great personality. People who know me well tell me im the extreme triple threat.
Im 16, and my friends are extremely dorky. They do not know how to have fun at all. Most of them are guys, and they play videogames and basketball all day, everyday.
They are also starting to get on my nerves little by little.
They always joke around that i am "the cool girl with the dorks."
I'm very shy to meet new people, its just hard for me. This one particular person thinks im boring and a goody goody. Only my close friends know im nothing like that.
Im getting so sick and tired of this, i want to have fun, live my life to the fullest but it seems impossible. Especially since its hard for me to meet new people.
Im starting to get depressed over this, and i feel like i deserve better, not trying to sound cocky.
Could someone please HELP me with this problem.
Thank you so very much. :)
2006-12-30 16:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by olivemenow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You said you have some close friends. Why don't you & your friends go out to some social gathering & you all go to another group & all of you guys talk to someone out of the group. That way you are still in your comfort zone being in the present of your closer friends while meeting someone new which isn't always so comfortable.
It's basically caliding to worlds into one. The only difference is one world you feel safe & the other you feel like you have to fight to be accepted...Funny way of putting it but it was the first that came to mind. Haaa Anyways, I as well am shy & It isn't that easy to meet others. Everytime I am with someone I'm comfortable with it feels like I can talk with more ease when I'm with them & someone new....
I hope my edvice has helped. Good luck!
2006-12-30 16:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say people tell you how pretty you are and that you are model beautiful.
This can be a problem as people can feel a little threatened by it.
You say you are shy ,the way you describe your friends I would not see you as being shy .
When you get older you will find the dorky boys are the ones who have excelled in life.
If you continue on with this way of thinking you may end up with no one who could be classed as a true friend.
Friendship is a privledge not a right.
True beauty comes from the character and shines from within ..
A girl who society may class as ugly on the outside but has a character of integrity her beauty shines from within and this is what draws people who want to stick around. .
You don't appear to have that and this can be the cause of your problems .
If one knows how to entertain themselves they never suffer with boredom.
Take care!
May the New Year be a good one.
2006-12-30 17:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try, it really aint all that hard. Just talk to ppl. Play games with ppl, find sombody who fits your personality best. And, trust me, a true friend wont even determin you as a friend or not just because of the way you look, a good friend will like you for your personality.
2016-05-22 22:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but don't you think you are a little arrogant? You don't seem to like those guys so why do you hang out with them at all and call them friends?
2006-12-31 02:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you can't handle them anymore you should try to meet new people i know you are shy but that is the only way to get new friends. good luck
2006-12-30 16:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by mysteryathelete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good friends are hard to find. if you don't think your old dorky friends are worth your time now, dump 'em. I'm sure if you're as pretty as you say so (noooo didn't sound cocky AT ALL) you'll find better friends fast, **rollz eyes**
2007-01-02 10:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Julio M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is try to hang out with different people...just dont make it seem like u have no friends because that makes it worse
2006-12-30 16:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by hannah1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are a pretty girlthen youll have no rpbolems fitting in with other ppl, just smile alot : )
2006-12-30 16:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mark-0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Sl(_)t is your Other Option...
2006-12-30 16:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see shynessexpress.com
it is good with shyness techniques
2007-01-01 08:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋