should i go out with just any woman,or should i be choosie,or should i wait a while,im not a club person,im more a social person with soulmate ideals in mind,i am new at the dating game,any hints?or ideas to help me?
2006-12-30 16:35:45 · 14 answers · asked by cheated on by ex girlfriend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to do what your comfortable with. The next girl might be a "rebound" girl, and not the one you are waiting for. (as was told to me when I asked for advice on this very topic) Take things slow and socialize. Have fun and relax. Love will drop in your lap when you least expect it. As to being new to the dating game, I can't advise as I am also new after almost a twenty year sabbatical and things have changed. Honestly, good luck and take it easy. That's my best advice.
2006-12-30 16:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want someone who has the same interest as you do. Someone that is going to love you the way you want to be loved. I say though have fun go out with different girls and be choosy you only live once.
2006-12-31 02:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait for awhile. "Rebound" dating is a risky proposition. A rebound girl is looked at by guys as easy pickins, while a guy rebounding can scare the good ladies, and fall into the game by the nasty b--tches looking to play. In either case, it's best to wait, and get things straightened out in yer own mind first.
2006-12-31 02:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who take whatever they can get, get what they wish someone else would take away. You can try advertising on some online site or something that lets you describe what you are looking for, but I think you have as good as odds bumping into someone at a library or grocery store, go do the kinds of activities you like, and maybe you will meet single women there.
2006-12-31 00:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when looking for someone, look into their past, get to know them, and what their goals in life are. are they someone u can trust, are they reliable and would be there for u and love u unconditionally, or do they love u conditionally. see how they react to stress and crisis, do they try to work things out or do they give up easily when problems come. if your not a club person than don't search in a club for her. just date and get to know her before u make a commitment or give her a ring. stay away from unhappy fault finding people who will just pull u down, stay away from bad environments as they Will just contaminate u. never compromise your morals or beliefs to satisfy someone else, never change who u are for someone else. set boundaries and if they leave u because of them than don't be upset as it may not have worked anyway.
2006-12-31 10:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go out with just any woman but i do think that you should go out and have fun and just see what happens. You shouldn't jump into anything on a rebound it could get you into a world of trouble sometime. Good Luck!
2006-12-31 00:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating, marriage, family.. are the most important decisions of one's life. They are the very backbone of society.
Raise your standards, be choosie. If you believe in God, trust Him, pray, and BE PATIENT. Respect yourself.
2006-12-31 00:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by forcedprogress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r cheater than u will be punished by each girl u choose but if u r true in ur love than god will meet u with ur love at correct time and in right way and very soon..........
happy new year
2006-12-31 00:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by dimple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty to answer the best way to answer that is dont go back to dating someone like ur x was
2006-12-31 01:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait, dont choose, the best therapy is lots of meaningless sex with strangers- and pleease drop the soulmate crap
2006-12-31 00:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋