everytime me and her feel really close, i always happen to do something stupid like lie and it just brings us falling back down. Now, she doesnt trust me at all because these things happen excessively now. What is there to do if you want to earn her trust back?
2006-12-30 16:24:35 · 10 answers · asked by brianbombdiggity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The question is why do you lie to her in the first place? If she is truly your friend then why are you lying? You're hurting your relationship more and more each time and even worse... you're hurting her. One day she may come to you and say she no long wants to have you in her life, then you're eyes will be forced to open. Is that the results you want? I think first you need to explain to her why you have lied to her so much in the past, let her know how much you value the friendship, let her know that you are working to do better (because you will be), but that you will also need her help to keep you you from slipping (we like when you reach out), and then keep your word. Otherwise the consequences could be disappointing.
2006-12-31 01:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo hoo ... look, if this pal is a real pal, issues will be cool quickly sufficient. you mustn't ought to bounce round like a drooling domestic dog and kiss her butt to get lower back in strong such as her. in case you screwed up too a lot and did something extremely egregious then perhaps she is extra effective off without you. really time can tell. merely be a pal to her and wait and note. You did not supply any information about what you probably did, so that you may were a actual dick. Sorry. merely having a huge gamble with the percentages on that.
2016-12-01 08:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to tell the truth..... ALL the time. Maybe it won't be the truth they want to hear, but then they will know, you are capable of telling it. There's nothing if you don't have trust. Maybe ask what you can do. Not to be mean, but maybe you have a problem, and maybe you could get some treatment for that. Good Luck to you.
2006-12-30 16:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple...apologize and don't lie...be honest to her even if it may hurt her. if you have been excessively lying then that is something you have to apologize and say sorry to her about. if she doesn't give you another chance then just learn from it. if you really want to salvage the relationship...then tell her why you lied and how you know its wrong and want another chance. be forward and direct. tell her exactly how you feel without making excuses for yourself. remember real friends don't lie to friends.
2006-12-30 16:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems rather obvious to me.
STOP
LYING
and give her time to learn how to trust you. It takes time, and you not being a liar. If you can't stop, you have issues and she then has every right to not be your friend again until you seek help.
2006-12-30 16:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time listen and heed the little voice in your head saying maby that isn' t a good idea instead of ignoring it.
2006-12-30 16:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont lie and make her feel special. be depended and look out for her and yourself. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 16:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop lying, tell her that you love her (as a friend) get her a nice little present and give lots of hugs.
2006-12-30 16:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her reason to trust you.
2006-12-30 16:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by lovey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it to them exactly how it is
2006-12-30 17:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jen-jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋