2006-12-30 16:21:38 · 13 answers · asked by Damian S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be more specific could be yes, could be no
2006-12-30 16:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i imagine it truly is going to be the ascertain that has the bottom earnings that stayed at abode to strengthen the little ones! Which in maximum households it would want to be the mummy! some couples nevertheless can't locate the money for to attempt this inspite of the indisputable fact that even if or not they were given a "huge tax credit." i'm fortunate sufficient that my better 0.5 earns more suitable than sufficient so i can stay at abode - i'd be getting Maternity pay from my artwork for 9 months and then I plan to stay at abode for yet another 3 months and then bypass lower back to artwork area time (really some hours per week) - As i imagine this may help as going lower back to artwork after been a stay at abode mom for 5 years might want to be troublesome going - so i imagine it would want to be extra effective to proceed operating some hours per week. My baby will be at my moms or my companions moms even as i'm operating so i does not ought to pay for childcare like maximum folk!
2016-12-01 08:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you married this guy you had children, you all are a package. He either need to step up and be the man of the house and respect your children and you or make some decision about how he is going to leave and how he is going to make his life better. Men who marry and children are involved need to talk with them first and see how they are feeling. On the other hand your children are grown and you need to remind them that you are the mother and as long as youare living you will be the best decision for yourself and if they cannot understand that them that is on them....It is not there job to like him, they just have to respect him...this goes both ways
2006-12-30 16:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by single2mingle22000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How adult are the children? Does this new man make mom happy? Are the reasons for issues legitimate? If mom is happy, does he treat her like you would like to see mom treated. Or is this all about the fact that new hubby is not dad?
2006-12-30 16:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very difficult. Blood or water. Use your best judgment, you know what you feel in your heart. Talking to you children might also help you to find out what the problem is. Of course, if there is abuse going on then NO.
2006-12-30 16:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by red_shorty_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the kids are grown, I’m assuming they don’t live at home, and if they don’t live at home, then I assume their contact with each other is limited. If they can’t manage to tolerate each other for a few hours at a time, then they are ALL very immature.
2006-12-30 16:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all according to circumstances...do they live under your roof as adults? Lots of things go into play here so...it's hard to answer that!
How do they treat him?
2006-12-30 16:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just how important are these children to you? What are the reasons they can't get along? I need more information about them and him.
2006-12-30 16:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if your kids are growen
yes
tell the kids to grow up
and get over themselves
it is your turn to enjoy yourself
kids
they are a little much
even when their adults
2006-12-30 16:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no as it will never work out, there will be resentments, jealousies, and life with such a man will just become miserable. he will pull u down and make u unhappy.
2006-12-31 02:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if they dont get along now they may not get along ever....well do you perfer ur kids or ur husband???
2006-12-30 16:26:32 · answer #11 · answered by private_senorita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋