2006-12-30 16:18:00 · 23 answers · asked by Allie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means no such thing.
Do you think he stopped being sexually attracted to women when he married you? Did you stop being sexually attracted to men when you married him? It's what he does with this attraction that matters.
Whether he is likely to cheat or not is based entirely on his feelings for you and how much he values you.
The only danger is that if he lies about it or tries to hide it from you he runs a risk of damaging the intimacy you share. Secrets are like bricks that build up over time. He may not even be aware that he's running this risk. If he's currently doing this openly the worst thing you could do is to push him underground. Talk to him about it...find out what he likes about it...find out if there's a way you can be involved.
2006-12-30 16:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Patienttraffic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe you should try looking with him though it can get interesting if you know what I mean. If you looked at naked guys on the computer does that mean that u would cheat on your husband? Only u know your husband so really that is only a Q that you could really answer.
2006-12-31 02:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by lexigurl1211 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know my husband looked at lots of things on this computer. I know he has probably seen lots of naked girls and other things on here. I know for a fact my husband is not a cheater he comes home every night after work and is here on the weekends with me. To answer your question I say no.
2006-12-30 18:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't neccessarily mean your husband will cheat however, some men can become obbssessed with surfing pornography sites it becomes an addiction and can cost alot of money and also takes them into a fantasy world consuming them completely, be careful , if this happens your sex life will suffer not to mention the bank balance. My advice to you is to keep an eye on the situation. Goodluck.
2006-12-30 18:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your husband is on a diet doesnt mean he cant look at the menu. No I dont think that choking your chicken if front of the computer is a good indicator if he is going to cheat or not.
2006-12-30 16:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, it's more likely for a man to watch porn or naked women(magazines of course), my husband does it sometimes he says that guys enjoy looking and i guess that is normal , we as women look at cute guys too , and if we think that a guy is hot it does not mean we want to cheat ...... I heard this at talk sex with Dr. Sue and she said that guys have sex on their minds 24 hrs. and unlike women they want quantity it does not really matter if there is quality. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him what his reason for doing this is , maybe he would like to see you in sexier clothes , maybe he's got fantasies but if you talk to him about this maybe he would include you in them, and stop looking at other women if he's got his hands full with you.
2006-12-30 16:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sabionda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he has a temptation that is too easy to give into. You need to confront him and say look I cannot compete with that (and noone in real life can thoes are enhanced you know). Not only that he is gonna totally wreck your computer! I just fixed one and that was on one occasion a man came over and clicked on some porn who was a friend of my neighbor's husband. His one night made us have to reformat the hard drive and the lost all their pics and everthing.
2006-12-30 16:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there's a better chance for a person who looks at porno to cheat than someone who DOESN'T look at porno.
Why is he even looking at that crap??
Think of it like this... if he looks at a naked person IN PERSON, what do you think he would do? I think the fact that he's looking at naked people ON THE COMPUTER is what's keeping him away from actually doing something else.
2006-12-30 16:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, I don't think so.
If everything is okay in the bedroom, he is probably just curious; remember, they say guys think about sex in a day like a million times or so...no, I think, you just need to worry if he spends all his time there and hardly any with you (sexually, I mean). Yes, it is awkward and hard, we would like to be the only one in our man's lives, but as I said, if it is only fantasy...if you'd be comfortable, you could watch with him, I guess (I'm not there yet,either). But I do believe, as long as you don't notice him not paying attention to you, you are okay!!!
2006-12-30 16:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by avechm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is potentially cheating. Let's say those women were right in front of him. Would he not cheat on you then? If he is looking at hot women online, he is cheating in his mind. Haven't any of you seen Phonebooth? Kiefer Sutherland sure sets Colin straight!
2006-12-30 16:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by WhurrsMuhCash 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋