I have a friend who is a girl and 14. She drinks every time she is with her cousin because she can get a way with it. Normally she has 2 smeroffs and gets drunk. What should my friend and i do about this?
2006-12-30 16:16:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok no messing around.If this is for real.Then this is very serious.You must do something,and you have to build up the courage to say something.if she continues,by the time she have killed off most of her brain cells.Yes there lots millions maybe,i dont know.But they will die with every drink.By the time shes 44 shell be all "duhhhhhhh......"no exageration.in simple terms"do something about it,now"
2006-12-30 19:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Aces747 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is drinking only 2 drinks and gets drunk, she probably faking. I had a friend that did the same crap when we were young. "Fix" a drink for her, i said "fix" because you don't need to put any alcohol in it, and offer it to her, see if she is getting 'drunk'. This way you'll know if she's faking and then you can go from there. If this girl really gets drunk off of 2 drinks and she does this often, you should tell her you are going to rat her out. That may make her stop, but if she's determined to drink you'll need something more drastic. You may actually have to tell the girls parents. They should know especially since she's only 14. You could be saving the girls life.
2006-12-30 17:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Open up a bottle and join her - Okay everyone was a teen at one point or an other. We all tried something or did something we shouldn't. If she isn't screwing up in school, if her behavior is the same and she isn't causing trouble Let her do it. You can tell her folks but this will just piss her off and want to rebel more. Talk to her and say hey I'm concerned about you and explain to her what you see wrong. Now if you saw her doing lines of coke yeah then there is concern but just watch out for her and once you see a problem start fix it.
2006-12-30 19:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, get new friends! the kind of folk who drink and party at the kind of gentle age are literally not human beings you want to loaf round with. you may want to finally end up having to lie for them, and take care of peer stress. Now, this isn't completely uncommon. I lived in Europe for further or less six years, and also you may see childrens having a drink at eating places. the actual incontrovertible truth that you imagine they're not 'completely impressive for performing all of sudden' merely shows how mature you're. in my opinion, i might want to attempt to get them help. even as for some childrens, this is an 'try'. If it takes position typically, it may bring about a existence scuffling with alcoholism. I wish you and your human beings the perfect. Take care. :)
2016-12-01 08:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear god !! first off shes only gonna be young once dont tell her parents that would be the meanest and corniest thing to do . and the first time u drink it only takes about 3 beers to get drunk but if shes drinkin al the time and gettin drunk of 2 beers shes fakin it
2006-12-31 04:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by RAGE MORE!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her parents. This is not good and can lead to worse drugs. Why would you let her friend ruin her life?
2006-12-31 03:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mom for advice. She knows your friend, and probably your friends mom. Tell her you are worried, and tell your friend that too.
In the end, you can't make her stop, but her parents can and she can make herself stop.
2006-12-30 16:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that can develop into a VERY serious problem when she gets older...tell her parents in secrecy but if she finds out if she isnt your friend anymore just know you were doing it to help her
2006-12-30 17:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents this can lead to a very self destructive life.. the best thing that you can do to help is to help her stop
2006-12-30 16:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by krystals220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the responsible thing to do is to tell an adult.You are doing her a health favour when you do.
2006-12-30 19:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋