I'm 18 and bi. The first guy I've ever had a crush on was straight. It was a big, 3 year, big-secret-to-everyone-but-me kind of crush. He was really nice about it when I told him, and even tried to help me get over him over AIM. That was 6 months ago around graduation time, but I've thought about him almost every day since then. I get that he's straight. He even has a girlfriend. Why can't I/How can I get over him?
2006-12-30 16:05:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Emotions are like chapters in a book. The more you read the harder it becomes to remember details of the first ones. The better the chapters become as you read the more you realize, how lame the earlier chapters were.
2006-12-30 16:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take some time and look into your GBLT local community. They have lots of different programs and social events. They probably have a youth group that does some cool events.
When it comes down to it. Who has the time for figuring out if the guy is straight or gay? Leave that to the closet cases. This way you know the deal. Your already a step ahead. Plus, your new family will accept you with open arms.
2006-12-31 00:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jude M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww it'll be okay. some new beauty will catch your eye and tho you may never forget your first crush you'll eventually turn your attentions to a love that reciprocates. just try not to allow yourself to be blind to the admiring glances you might be getting from potential lovers. you don't want to miss a good thing while you're mooning over some guy you can't have. right?
2006-12-31 00:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by nebtet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will just take time. You will always remember him but respect his wishes and go on and some day when you find someone else you will wonder what all the fuss was about. This is very normal. Take care!!!!!!!!
2006-12-31 00:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he was the closest thing to a b/f that u have ever had. To get over him there is rea;;y is no way to get over him it will just wear off. I know this happened with my first g/f. Just try to forget about him try to find someone elese.
good luck!!!!!
2006-12-31 00:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by blondebeauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time.. you just have to be patient.. one day u'l just wake up and can tel yourself you got over him..
try to occupy yourself with something else.. find a sport or do things you love to do.. spend time with friends and family.. or find another guy.. or wait for dat another guy..
2006-12-31 01:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to replace him with someone else..don't let your missing him become just a habit that you feel all the time...Nothing is going to give you what you want in this situation...time to move on...sorry.
2006-12-31 00:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time, nothing else will make it go away but time
2006-12-31 00:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by sparkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha ahhh ha ha ha ho
what can I do?
Find the nearest gay bar and let your self go.
Ha ha ha ha ha ho.
2006-12-31 00:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIND SOME ONE WHO IS LIKE YOU
2006-12-31 00:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋