You often see Black men and White women or Black men even with Latin women, but it is rare that you see a Black woman with a man of another race. Do Black men have more of a problem with this than society does?
2006-12-30 16:04:36 · 10 answers · asked by Deezie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah... I think they do!!! but not only black men, many people think that way... but if you are in the middle of this, i just can tell you... don't miss the opportunity to date that person that could be the best in your life (the best of the best) no matter his race... good luck!!!
2006-12-30 16:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by jorgesax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Most of the blk men in my family have and still do date women other than black women. However, I recently fell for a white man and I was met with a large amount of negative criticism that I never anticipated. So I definitely think there is a double standard. I've learned that race isn't all that important when you love someone.
2006-12-31 00:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience I was in a relationship with a black man for 4 years ( I am a white female). I have to say that black women had a problem with it more than anyone. I would get horrible stares from them and even over heard some rude comments. Basically that White women are taking black men away from them. I don't personally care what color you are as long as your a good person. There are jerks and trash in every race. We didn't have any trouble with black men having a problem with our dating. They actually made me feel more comfortable when around them and most black women just were down right rude.
2006-12-31 00:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by AngelWings 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No but some black men can't stand to see a black woman with a man of another race but they sometimes secretly crush on women of other races. I say date who you want but don't cut down the people of your own race in the mean time.
2006-12-31 00:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
White/Latin men generally don't find Black Women to be as
attractive as Black Men find white women...
2006-12-31 00:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question, I have always dated black women all my life, (im a white man) I have a beautiful gf and do seem to get weird looks from black men. I don't care what society thinks or black men think, im gonna do what i wanna do anyways!
2006-12-31 00:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by silverblack12345 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
For some strange reason I think that many women are more guided by what other people, their families, etc say.
Men seem to be a little more careless on that subject. Once a woman does decide though, she will definetely see it through whereas a man might get thrown on track...
2006-12-31 00:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by avechm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that everyone that have these types of hangups are overly self conscious. i see sistas with white men all the time, and it doesn't boher me. granted i'm attracted to all flavors of the rainbow but it all depends who you're dealing with on a day to day basis. if you live in a predominatly black or white community then it tends to stand out more, but if you live in a multicultral community you tend to see more open minded ppl.
2006-12-31 13:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by ceddy_mack 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong about it it defends on the men itself if he wanted the black lady there are also good looking sexy black women out there.
2006-12-31 00:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think there is ne problem with it, and if some one has a problem wit it to damn bad cuz color ain't nuttin and i am speakin from my point of view cuz i am a white female wit a black male and idc wat neone says cuz i luv him and color isn't nethang.
2006-12-31 00:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey K 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋