I don't want any bs answers, give me a nice, long, honest heartfelt opinion and I'll consider it. No crap quoting the Bible either 'cause I don't believe in it and don't want to hear it. Thank you.
2006-12-30 15:51:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i personally believe that it is okay. now we must first define your context of the word love. i love my friends and i love my girlfriend and i love my mom but those are three very different types of love. i was so unfortunate as to have been cheated on by a former partner where not only was i cheated on,but i witnessed a minage-a-troix in a walmart dressing room involving not only my former partner but what i'm pretty sure were underage boy girl twins.
but... that is a story for anotherday. in reply to your question in the context of loving someone so completely that you are willing to do anything to keep them with you. i blieve it is important not to love someone because of genatailia but because of who they are. i mean, it's approx. 1/10th of the human body, there is so much left to learn about, to expirence. should personality play into it? what about likes? charms? excintricities?
the first time i ever saw my girlfriend, i couldn't tell if she was a girl or a boy, the only thing that mattered is that she had everyone's attention and i found that attractive.
so i propose you forget about right wrong girl boy and start lovving everyone for who they are not what they have.
best of luck to you ...hope this answers your question or at least raises a new one...
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2006-12-30 16:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by mads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to say that you've found "the love of your life" by age 15, whether boy or girl. That's way too young.
2016-03-29 01:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once Upon a time I would agree with the str8 ******* and say Yes it is wrong..but that is only because I was denying a part of me that really wanted to live true but couldn't. Not everyone is fortunate enough to live in a free community with good friends or people who accept being gay/lez/bi etc..we all come from different backgrounds and each and everyone of us has a story to tell of how they fell in love for the first time to a girl and not a boy..the struggles one must face and confusing questions of what to do next..it is not wrong to love someone wether boy or girl do what you want and hopefully you find your own way..
2006-12-30 21:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to love another girl. It's not wrong to love period. Your heart does not have the ability to choose how it feels. That's where your head comes in. We know sometimes it may be wrong to love someone, but that doesn't mean we don't. It may be that the person is into 'bad' things, like drugs or a lifestyle that is unlike are own. You're parents may not like them. The person may even be attached to another. No matter what the situation, you can't just stop loving someone. I say let your heart love. Love is blind...and all of that other cheesy cliche stuff.
2006-12-31 10:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be wrong? There's absolutely nothing wrong with admiring, and wanting to please a beautiful woman, even if you are one. As a man, it's a total turnon, especially if you include us in your little love nest. It's really none of the world's business, either. If that's what makes you happy sexually, go for it, because you'll make some very luck girl happy, and maybe some even luckier guy will thank heaven that he was ever born.
Sincerely,
Chris
2006-12-30 16:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by ChrisJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your life, your body, as long you don't hurt anyone, you are entitled to do whatever you want. Plus love is love and it is beautiful.
If it was wrong it wouldn't not happen, there is lesbian couples that have been living for 50 years together in SF, and by their look you can see that they still in love, I saw a movie about them and I cried, I strong wished that I had fallen in love with another guy. So if you happen to be in love, don't fight it girl Just enjoy it. Happy New years to you !!!!
2006-12-31 06:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Iton S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Women can offer the same things in a relationship with another women, just as a man can. Women are soft, sensual, they smell good, they are curvy and the list goes on. What isn't to love? I think it's fine. Don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise.
2006-12-30 15:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all. sum people think its wrong and sum think ya a freak 4 lovin sum1 tht is ya own sex to. but in the end its your feelings that matter not every1 elses it doesnt make u a freak coz u r as normal as every1 else. so i say **** evry1 else hu look dwn on u coz u r in love wiv another female if thts wht makes u happy then nothin else matters.
2006-12-30 23:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by dudett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong. You love who you love. You can't control who you fall in love with. I know this from experience because I fell in love with a girl and I never thought that would happen to me because I never thought I would fall in love at all especially with a girl.
2006-12-30 19:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if the truely love one another. Other people should not care if two others love each other. That is why I believe the whole gay marriage ban thing is bogus.
2006-12-30 15:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by sgcfx949 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋