Have any of you gotten back together with your ex-spouse or remarried him/her?
Were there any children involved?
2006-12-30 15:45:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I remained friends with him because he was my friend in the first place and we also had three biys together. We are still friends today, and I still love him the same way I did back then.
2006-12-30 15:46:45 · update #1
We've also become much closer because of our many grandchildren as well.
2006-12-30 15:51:48 · update #2
My ex husband is one of my best friends. We split amicably and even went out for lunch after our dissolution hearing.
We have a son, he was 2 when we split and is now 9. Joint custody, no one pays child support.
We agreed after he was born that whatever happens, we would never bad mouth each other to our son. My parents did this and I was miserable. We have stuck to it, hes a great guy, not much bad to say. Its wonderful for our son to know he has 2 parents that love him and can still be good friends and parents even though we are not married anymore.
My current husband and my ex's live-in gf are both cool with it too. We all went trick or treating together this year. Our son, his gf's son, and my daugher from my current marriage, plus the 4 adults. Had a blast.
I wish all separated parents could get along like we do, this world would be a much better place.
2006-12-30 15:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO did not remain friends with ex,but after almost 22 yrs we now talk and get along to a certain degree due to the grandchildren we have. We had two children,and he wasn't a part of their lives for quite some time,and only lived less than half an hour from them. But that was past NOT now. He wanted me to come back to him just this last summer,but I said no I am married to someone else and would not leave him for the ex.
2006-12-30 15:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remained friends with my ex because it's important if you have children involved. And i have 2 wonderful boys and we got along better as friends than we ever did husband and wife and now he's remarried and we can basically talk to each other about anything.
2006-12-30 15:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I THOUGHT we had agreed to divorce amicably and do what was best for our daughter. That was before my ex took all the money out of our account and set up a sole account (and watched me write bad checks for bills even though she knew all the money wasn't in the account) and before she made plans to take our daughter and move away as she was telling the court that it was important for our daughter to have as much time as possible with me. FIGHT'S ON
Now she doesn't talk to me because the court forced her to stay and not take my daughter away. Now she just sends her flying monkeys after me. It's not my fault a house fell on her sister!
2006-12-30 15:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well me and my 1st husband have been divorced for 12 years we now tolerate each other (yes there were children that he totally ignored for 7 years) i get along great with his new wife and shes really good to my boys as for the 2nd one i dont hate him but i never see him or talk to him even though he only lives in the next town
2006-12-31 00:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by t b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to remain friends but when I moved on he got mad... I guess I should mention that he left me for another woman. I tried to remain friends because we had a son but the new girl did not want to worry about his kid.
2006-12-30 15:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by iseemen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends if the both fo you are mature enough to be friends, I would like to think people would be but for my ex and i ever since he got serious with his new girlfriend he has not even spoken to our son, who is only 5, what a loser.
2006-12-30 15:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by dontknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the couple. If you have kids you need to do what is best for them. They didn't ask to be brought into your mess. Sometimes you just swallow your pride and sometimes you just have to cuss out the spouse to get the situation in order. Again..it depends on the couple
2006-12-30 16:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex spouse is still in love with me....we do talk, we have two boys together. I feel sorry for him because he can't hold a girlfriend, they all say he is still in love with me, because he talks about me all the time!
2006-12-30 16:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by veronica c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on why u divorced them, if the divorce was painful due to something the other person did, than no it wouldn't be good to ever talk to or see them again. i am friendly with my first ex, as we resolved what happened. but with my second ex, it was quite painful, involving betrayal and lots of lies, so no i would never speak to him again. as it is best sometimes to leave the past in the past, as your destiny isn't tied to these people. i chose to grieve the past, and accept what happened, than let go of it, and move into my future. as holding on to the past, hinders our future.
2006-12-31 02:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋