All girls and guys please help me to get her out of my mind. i've tried everything to 4get her nothing is helping me, what should i do??
2006-12-30 15:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by Jigar Patel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, close your eyes, take a deep breath, and picture her face, her hair, everything abut her, now picture that you are taking a nice wet runny dump on her head like she probably did to you in real life... Picture it running down her hair, in her ears, eww, she just opened her mouth to smile and there's like liquid crap running into mouth, GROSS!
Maybe this image will help you stop thinking about her!
2006-12-30 15:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by mark d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters, how long did you two know each other before getting engaged? Did you have a reason given to you that you honestly believed when the break up occurred? I was in a similar situation, without the engagement. Everything happens for a reason and right now you may not know the reason that this has happened, but at some point in time something will click for you and then you will understand why this happened. Time makes things seem less important and eventually you will find someone that makes you forget all the others out there. Just give yourself some time.
2006-12-30 23:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by indygurl3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good evening,
I would say it depends upon the nature of the breakup. If the breakup was over something as simple as a misunderstanding that got out of hand, then there is always the hope that she is thinking of you as well, now that time has allowed for calmer thoughts to regain control of the situation. However, if the situation was based upon something more serious, then it would be best to look into what the circumstances were surrounding the situation and if it can be resolved. In seeking that resolution the best outcome would be that you two might work things out, the least outcome will be that you will gain closure of the relationship and will have let her know your thoughts. If you don't get the girl back, or if you don't want her back but want to find a way to move on, then I suggest you apply your attention towards finding a way to be happy. Spend time with friends, seek to go back out into the dating world, do anything you feel is constructive that will occupy your time and is good for you as a person. It's been said a million times that time is the great healer of all things, as someone who has been through a similar situation I can say it's true. Take time, use it on yourself, use it wisely, have some fun, and things will all work out for you in the long run.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-31 00:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by Vince D from NYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 4 months to leave my house and over a year and a half to get over my ex, but now I am glad that I made myself get out. I am dating this wonderful guy that I can honestly say I hope I am with for a long time because we do not have the drama I had before and we can actually laugh with adn at eachother. It is good to know it is not the end just because a relationship is over.
2006-12-30 23:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by dontknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL JUST TAKE TIME TO GET OVER SOMEONE THAT
YOU LOVE AND WAS ENGAGED TO. BUT AS TIME GO
ON YOU WILL START TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AGAIN. JUST TAKE
IT SLOW , GO OUT WITH FRIENDS, DO THINGS THAT WILL
KEEP YOUR MIND ON OTHERS THINGS. THEN WHEN YOU
KNOW IT SHE WILL BE NOT VISABLE IN YOUR MIND AND
YOUR HEART. BUT IT WILL TAKE TIME.
2006-12-31 00:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and try to win her back, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years and we just split up. i will do anything to get him back. i love him and cant stop thinking about him, let her know how u feel.
2006-12-30 23:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by scion_xb_girly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should realize that there are allways better women too meet with great personalites
2006-12-30 23:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, tell her that you miss her
2006-12-30 23:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by melonhead1214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love stinks doesn't it?
2006-12-30 23:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋