Okay well my bf and me love eachother very much. but theirs 1 thing that is on his mind and he wont drop it. he has a 4 inch penis and i have had a few guys n my past with larger and i got great pleasure out of that and hes afraid he cant please me. in a way im afraid he wont be able to either. please help us. i love him very much and if he were at least 5 inches he said he will be fine and i belive so too. (we havent had sex yet...and i will be his first) is their anything we can do to increase his size, or width, or both. and what size penis do you most prefer? and does size really matter. i just need to know. because if it does i dont want to disappoint him b4 anything. i know i sound like a ***** but i want his first time with me to be perfect for both of us. his love is what i care about most but great sex on the side would make it better.
2006-12-30 15:32:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
hes 4inch erect
2006-12-30 19:00:43 · update #1
I can see why he would be a little worried about this. I learned in my experiences that if you do it with a larger boy and then a smaller one later, it's hard to even feel it. But I will tell you one thing, the longer it has been since you have done it, the more likely this will not be a problem since the muscles shrink back down somewhat over time. Plus after being with him a few times your body will accustom itself to him. You can't increase his size with anything, he will probably grow some as he gets older. This size indicates to me that both of ya'll are probably too young to be doing this anyway. I am not going to tell you what to do though, all I can say is be careful. You don't want a kid unexpectedly.
All I can say is that with him being a virgin, you need to take it slow. Wait until ya'll are sure he is ABSOLUTELY ready, just because he is a guy doesn't mean he won't regret it later, and you might regret the timing of his first time if you rush it too much.
Basically focus on being happy together and when the time is right, then it'll be great, just give it time. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-12-30 16:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The size of the penis does not matter. It is how they use it. They do sell natural enhancers over the counter. But watch out, some increase the sex drive and not the size. They also sell things like penis pumps in sex stores. I'm not sure if they work, but they advertise that they do.
Now, I have a question for you. Does he have alot of facial/body hair ? The reason why I ask that is, men that tend ot have smaller penis's may have a hormone deficiency. Ask him if his testicles are the normal size. If left untreated, it can lead to brittle bones and growth impairment. To test for this is just a blood test.
2006-12-30 15:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Linda G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who falls under my Three C's will make me melt: 1. Confident. What many guys fail to realize is that there is a big difference between being cocky and confident, and I like the second one. Any guy who shines inside will shine on the outside, too. 2. Chivalrous. Whoever said chivalry is dead has never met a good guy. Yes, I'm perfectly capable of opening my own door and seating myself, but it's the generosity that counts. 3. Chill. Any guy who is more of a drama queen than I am has got to go! :) Hope I helped! Rachel
2016-03-29 01:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things probably won't be perfect, so, don't get to wrapped up in making things perfect.
His size is what it is and it can't be increased.
Certain positions will increase your pleasure, you on top for instance-think of it this way you can experiment all different positions to find the ones that make you go crazy!
2006-12-30 15:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size won't matter. For one thing, when he is erect he WILL be bigger than 4 inches.
A normal organ is between 4 and 8 inches flaccid. Anything bigger is too big.
Count yourself lucky you have a normal-sized guy.
If you wonder how I know this: both my husband (and my ex before him (my first)) is small. When we had sex and he became erect, he was twice his flaccid size.
Don't worry about it!
You have more important things to worry about!
2006-12-30 17:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to know is to try it out... I had sex with a guy who was that size and it was the best sex of my life.. then again.. I have had sex with other guys who were small or average and they did nothing for me!
2006-12-30 15:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Holy Macaroni! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to try and get viagra or enzyte. Enzyte is free they can get him a 30 day supply go to enzyte,com. I'm sure your relationship will last it looks like you love him very much. He is a very lucky young man for you to do this. Enzyte is the best for natural male enhancement haven't you seen the commercials about that guy named Bob. Well my husband is pretty well endowed and i am avery happy wife. Hope this helps lots of luck.
2006-12-30 16:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by jmc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the way to get an orgasm with intercourse is from stimulation to the 'G' spot, which is about an inch or inch and a half up inside the vagina, he has plenty of length to hit that. for more info go to sex101.com
2006-12-30 15:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Honey pot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All in how he uses it....
Better to be small and good than big and terrible. Don't let this get in the way of what could be a great relationship.
2006-12-30 15:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I have a 4 inch erect penis and I have to give oral to satisfy a girl. My small penis alone isn't enough.
2015-05-20 00:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋