why do things have to be so hard when we try and try to just make things right?

Answer 1

what is "just right"? it's all in your perception of things. what is right for one person is not necessarily so for another. if you have certain expectations, you are destined to face disappointment. you can't control everything. you can make an effort, but be flexible and open-minded enough to accept it when things don't turn out as you wanted.

Answer 2

If we get things right the first time we don't allow your minds to think beyond a simple point. We must continue to exercise our thoughts to better ourselves. We must go to the extreme to get the full understanding of completion. The more we try the easier things become but to give up on the first try leaves behind the true answer.

Answer 3

Right

Answer 4

ok ,what i belive you trying to ask is why is,maken an effort is so hard to do , doing anything that invloves stress.tend to make you feel like this , but in the end it worth the effort ,trying to do the right thing involves i eme ,and we tend to overlook how much time this involes right? we tend to igore that out time is so much in demand, from work /family and the like that we forget to have some time to our selfs. this is called effort ,
its not hard it just seems like that

so doing the right thing anit so bad after all eh ?

Answer 5

My chemistry teacher gave me a really good quote once. She said the universe's natural state is disorder. (Well she meant that about molecules) but it can really be applied to everything. Nothing ever aligns itself the way you want it.

But be happy that you have standards, it proves that you're a more than decent human being.

Answer 6

Just remember the age old motto:

No good deed goes unpunished.

Answer 7

i think it's just how one perceives. if you think things get hard, it'll get hard for you all the time. if you can take things easy, there will be nothing that gets hard.

Answer 8

it's like you can't win for losing..