i got in a huge fight with my math teacher. i don't know why i did it. so he told the principal about it and they transfered me outta ALL my classes . i loved all my classmates and teachers but now this is hell. everyone hates me in my new class. the teachers don't teach and i only have two teachers. (one teacher for two subjects) in my other science class, we do fun experiments but now we only do worksheets. i hate myself so much for what i've done. cuz now i have to spend the rest of the year with people who hates me. this girl even hit me with a paper towel roll. my old class was wonderful. i had friends and everyone was so nice and funny. i have to have p.e with seventh graders (and im an eigth grader) and now eighth grade would b just a very painful memory for me. this is my last year in middle school and it was susposed to b wonderful but now i just hate it. i've been cutting myself because of this. how can i forgive myself and feel better about myself?
2006-12-30 15:24:44 · 13 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Life's a beeatch sometimes. I learned a lot of lessons on my own instead of listening to adults... you'll get past it. You can try a written apology, but even if that doesn't work at least learn something from it and don't repeat your mistakes. Consequences are inevitable. Hang in there!
P.S. Cutting isn't going to help AT ALL, and you will end up with ugly scars to hide as an adult, trust me on that one too. Snap a rubber band on your wrist if you insist... but nothing sharp.
2006-12-30 15:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all hun, cutting is NOT the answer to your problem at all. It may seem like a way for you to forget the problem, or punish yourself for it, or whatever reason you may have for cutting, but stop now! Trust me; I know from experience. Second, it sounds like eight grade year's gonna be hard, but like you said, make the best you can out of it. Even when people are rude to you, you have to prove yourself to others that you're not really a bad person and you're not what people think you are. You're not just some GIRL who got kicked out of her classes because she got in a fight with the teacher...you're so much MORE than that darling. Don't live up to people's expectations of you. Make your own expectations for yourself this school year. Also, you may want to find someone to talk to about this stuff. A close older friend, a parent, a counseler, anybody with experience in life that you haven't had yet. You're not a loser :-) Good luck with eight grade! And I hope all goes well with the rest of your school life and your personal life too.
2006-12-30 23:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to make the decision to get through the rest of the year. I know you are probably very, very upset, and I can understand. It sounds like you are in some pretty tough situations. If you really feel like you need some closure/solution, may I reccomend you talk to your school counselor/principal? They may have a better alternative then what you are enduring now. Also, don't cut yourself! Life is going to throw a lot of really hard things at you. And some of them are going to really suck! But the good things far outweigh the bad things. Even if, right now, it seems like things aren't going to get any better- they are!:) I promise. Just hold fast. I know this is something nobody wants to hear, but, you are going to learn a lot from this. Things like this are going to make you strong.
I really, really hope this all works out for you in the best of ways! Just choose to feel better. It's step 1!:)
2006-12-30 23:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please seek help from you parents or other adult you trust for the cutting. It is not a solution. I completely understand what you are going through....mine was my senior year in high school that sucked. I know it's not much, but in the long run this will not make any difference in your life. I would suggest that you speak with your school consulor, principal, and anyone else who you think can help you. Also, ask some of your friends from you old classes for help...they may have some ideas for you or just be able to support you.
2006-12-30 23:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a sincere apology to your principal, and tell him/her about all your issues, explain how already you feel as though u will not do as well because you are not comfortable with the new environment you have been placed in and it is not one that I can adapt to and you've already tried so hard and after so much struggle you never get anyway, you've tried to make friends but are constantly finding hard to fit in, you see your classes as something to waste time, now no longer to teach yourself things and from there things just get worse.
explain how you feel and I'm sure they'll understand, also make your parents clear of this thoroughly clear continuously tell them of how you are disappointed with yourself and how your not learning anything.
2006-12-30 23:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by kewl chiik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off dont get into cutting... And you may want to talk to your principal. Or have your mom or dad go in and talk to the principal. Have you told your math teacher that you are sorry? just please listen to me and dont get into cutting or anything like that.. It sucks to get out of doing. Relax for a while and dont do that!! My friend died frm cutting... her life was worse though.. She just hit a vain and then couldnt stop bleeding.. i dont want anything to happen to you..i dont know what you do with your cutting just please dont i want you to be okay. Tell yourself that it will all be over next year. If you have faith in Christ ask him for guidenice he will help you. He helped me. Think of this more as a lesson than anthing else or a chaper in your life that you learn from. I learned young not to worry about things that i can do unless i can fix them and usaly that dosent help. Just dont worry about what is there and live with it. Its life get use to it. You will have many things that you hate. Cant just go to something like that because things get tough on you. Listen to me please and just at least stop your cutting. Thnakz if you do
2006-12-30 23:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart in order to forgive yourself you have to make good on the wrong you did. Apoligize and ask for his/her forgiveness. Ask if there is something else you can do to make it up to them. Do this with no motive in mind. Do it for honesty and kindess. Tell them that you are not doing this to get back in, but to make a wrong a right. Then, you ask God for forgivness for the wrong you made agains another human being. Then my dear, you are free of the agony. You then have done all you can to make it right. I hope you understand all this.
I wish you well.
2006-12-30 23:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 stop cutting urself ur gunna regret the scars , ur gunna be fine ull make some new friends screw the ones who are rude and stay focused on what matters cuz chances r u wont know these ppl when schools done
2006-12-30 23:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by tabetha m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to apologize to the teacher if he wont talk to you at least you tried if you are sincere. he might not accept it.you got to live with it , I've made a lot worse mistakes and I hope next time you'll think before you put your mouth in gear
2006-12-30 23:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by vincent c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it will be, apologize. I don't know what the fight was about, that's your personal information, but sometimes you just have to suck it up and be the bigger person and say you're sorry.
2006-12-30 23:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by soccer_queen114 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋