I really adore my school music teacher and I think that she and I would make really awsome friends, but how can I approach this matter? I don't know if people, or even she will think that my motives are negative, just because she is a teacher. Do you even think that being friends with a teacher is even possible? I mean, she's only in her early twenties, whereas I'm a sophomore in high school. I personally think that it would be a shame for me to loose this chance, because in real life, she's an awesome person to socialize with, in addition to having the potential to be an even greater friend.
2006-12-30 14:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's OK to be friends with teachers. When I stay after school for tutoring or to finish up some work, I talk to my teachers and we become friends. We talk about our cellphones, our weekend plans, etc. If you stay after school or go in before school (with the teacher's permission) to finish up some work, do extra credit or get tutoring-talk about other things in between working.
I'd highly recommend though that you do NOT ask her to go to parties, the mall, movies, or any other after school activity. It's one thing if she goes to your games if you're in school sports or something extra curricular like that-but she can look bad if she goes to hang out with you at parties and stuff. See, people will suspect she is showing favoritism and then everybody will want her to go hang out with them. Plus, it's not really professional for a teacher to do that with a student. If they're family-it's one thing, but if they're not-that's completely different and a definite no no.
Good luck!!
2006-12-30 15:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 02:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly with her but do not attempt to become friends. For one thing, she would feel uncomfortable (one of her roles is to act as a parental figure at school) and secondly, either one of you could get into trouble for it.
Wait until you are out of school. If you are around her quite a bit, you may become friends in adulthood.
2006-12-30 23:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that anything would be a problem with that if you just hung out after school. If you think that it would be a bad idea thatn that means that you don't want to take the risk and forget it. but you will never know what happen if you don't take the risk.
Good Luck :)
2006-12-30 15:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too have teacher friends, but we keep it at a professional manner when we are in school, but yea, just keep talking to her, im sure she wont think its weird if she gets to know you
2006-12-30 15:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by belinda P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i highly doubt you go to a small school like me where there is only 5 people in certsain classes, but our whole class is friended with my teacher. sice she may not be teaching next year, she cried. my teacher is 26
2006-12-30 14:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Prongs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think teachers should stay teachers, untill YOU'RE out of school and are of an age, where SHE won't get in trouble for being with you....she could and would get in trouble if the school, school board, parents, etc find out she's more than friends with her students...IN SCHOOL.
2006-12-30 14:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yea i've been friends with a lot of teachers...even guys! they're a lot of fun. try to get to know her, but it might be kinda weird if you invited her over.
2006-12-30 14:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
personally, i think it should stay a 'professional' relationship
she IS your teacher afterall
she's not there to be buddies with her students
2006-12-30 14:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask her over to a slumber party.
2006-12-30 14:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋