J the lying co-worker just left my job, but unfortunatly he left a lot of tension between my other coworkers.
He didn't waste any time trying to build his reputation. The first thing he told everyone is he was a foreman with his previous company. Things didn't stop there with J... J also told eveyone his ex-wife was a model in FHM magazine, and he knew Karate... All lies!
J was having a problem with another coworker, whom I consider this other coworker to be an ally. This coworker didn't like anything about J; evey time they worked together they fought verbally. My ally knew J was a liar and he wasn't happy with the quality of J's work.
Then J came up with a scheme to get this coworker fired. J simply went to the boss and told him our coworker was saying inappropriate statements to an Arabic employee.
J efforts were a complete failure, but J helped alienate this coworker from other coworkers.
How do you avoid problems with people like J?
2006-12-30 14:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by m8xpayne 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't stay around to listen to their lies.
2006-12-30 14:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically look extremely involved interior the prgnancy and the engagement. Ask her common approximately it and how each and every thing is coming alongside, ask her a question and then make certain to ask her a similar question in a week or 2 (pretend such as you variety of remeber what she mentioned yet write down what she extremely did say) and notice what answer you get, you may try catching her in a lie and then basically elevate the undeniable fact which you think of you remember her asserting something else if she does provide yet another answer. or you may shop asking her each and all of the time approximately it and sound extremely excited such as you want to help her together with her plans and he or she would ultimately lose interest of it or comprehend which you're directly to her.
2016-10-19 06:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm still a school girl, but I handle people like this all the time. Just ignore them completely without making it weird unless you HAVE to talk to them. Simple, but effective, just don't make it feel intimidating. (I don't even know what that means.)
2006-12-30 14:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I know that this sounds stupid but just innore the person. dont give in to their stupig games! and if they get really annoying just confront the person and if they are big enough they would give up the act!
best of luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 15:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by 2 cool 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋