i have a friend...well, she isn't really a friend, but this girl i used tobe best friends with. We got into some drama sophmore year (last year) and now it seems to be tearing us apart. she talked about me behind my back to two of my friends and everyone seems to have moved on but me. idunno what to do. i want to be friends with her but something about her makes me really uneasy. She seemed to replace me so quickly as a friend and we've talked about this numerous times and it seems to be getting no where. i get jealous over her for nothing, not to be vain, but she isn't that pretty and her best feature is everything below her face. i've given her advice about that so many times and she got mad at me for being right. she seems to have everyone wrapped around her finger and it's realling ticking me off big time. help please!!!!!
2006-12-30 14:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Frankel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be the better person. Move on. She obv. knows she is getting to you. Nothing ticks someone off more then seeing you don't care and that your more mature by doing the right thing. Girl...enjoy high school. get away from the HS drama.
2006-12-30 14:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Frankie!
Why would you want to be involved with someone who talks about you behind your back?
Friendship is a privilege not a right.
You made the comment about her appearance which comes across as though you may be a little jealous of her.
If others like her maybe you are the problem .
If a person has a nice character it brings out the inner beauty this is the thing which attracts people not the physical appearance.
Jealousy is like a cancer it eats away at a person and creates ones own misery.
Take care!
Happy New Year.
2006-12-30 22:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if there is something about her that's making you feel uneasy, chances are that shes prob not a good friend. Just from reading this i can tell shes just another one of those girls that starts drama. REAL friends wouldn't have you replaced with the snap of a finger. I think its time for you to be nice to her, but don't be friends with her like you used to be. Its normal for you to get jealous over her for nothing. All of us girls get jealous, its in our nature. Good luck with this.
2006-12-30 22:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by steffo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you call a fair weather friend,When things are going good she's there ,When things are going bad she's not there.I understand you and her are friends,But she's really not one to be called your best friend.What you see in her to make you uneasy is the same thing you'll see as long as you 2 remain friends she's not going to change.I'm speaking from experience.My friend of 30+ years are the same way.Watch your back at all times it's something about you she don't like?she sounds to be jealous of you.With friends like this you really don't need her.I know you miss her when she's not around.this is what I do .I pull back one day at a time.read my questions,I feel you.Work this out the best way you know how. You don't have to be mean just to the point.Good Luck
2006-12-30 22:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by lorraine B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to dominate this person by "winning" in the relationship, being the one who fixes everything. In reality you two are not ever going to be good friends again because she's shown her true colors and isn't likely to change soon until a lot of life experience matures her. Stop trying so hard, there's no point in it.
2006-12-30 22:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend .If you feel so miserable around her why even bother .Move on get busy find other people to hang out with .Gossiping about friends means that those people who partake in that nasty back stabbing pass time are not your friends so you won't be losing any thing but grief.You are wasting precious time you are young and time passes so fast get out there find other things to do .
2006-12-30 22:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by linda-Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick that two face to the curb and move on with your life! if she was a true friend then she would have made up with you a long time ago. and think she might be jealous of you and if your so called friends are biting into the gossip she spits out then they are not your friends either! find new friends.
2006-12-30 22:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by maddcc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't worth it honey..move on. Concentrate on your studies and excel in school.Show her what a real woman is and excel the **** out of everything you do! She will find herself wishing she had you as a friend. One day at your ten year reunion she will be fat, and unhappy, and you will have it all..a good career and a good man.. Remember to live for yourself and nobody else.
2006-12-30 22:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well say that you want to talk to her and then you can remember the good times and say hey maybe you can give her a gift to maybe that will work a little more better to and just say i know we have been through some hard times but i realy want to be your friend again hand her the present and say forgive me that works like a charm well goodluck ill be your charm for now i always work hehe!
2006-12-30 22:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she made a rumor last year you should just forget about it. Move on. You are suppoes to be mature. If you can't get along in the future don't be friends.
2006-12-30 22:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋