Me and my ex are trying to start over from a clean cut still friends kind of breakup. We recently went out and had a wonderful day, night fell, and we had an argument and he left. So since we have just started back, I'm sure he had a side piece or two, and I wanted to know what are the chances he had sex with one of those pieces since he left before we could have sex, and since we are just starting to try again I am asking this question because I know we have no ties to each other.
2006-12-30 14:27:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately what he did while he was separated from you is not really any of your business.Were you totally faithful to him while you were separated or did you sleep with other men ? If you have concerns about who he slept with while you two were separated talk to him about those concerns before sleeping with him again.But be prepared for him to tell you that it's none of your business and from that you will have to make your decisions about sleeping with him again.
2006-12-30 14:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sure did, now, are you going to brood over it?
If you are then you might as well go get some too and forget about him. Revenge sex is the easiest to forget about. On the other hand, are you setting yourself up for a co-dependent relationship? It takes two for a realtionship to exist, are you both ready for an exclusive committed relationship? Introspection on both parts is the key. Maybe you just need to play harder to get.
Go get the Scrabble game and let him twist in the wind a while.
2006-12-30 22:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a side slice of one or two other pieces. If he wanted to work thing out with you he would have stayed that night with you and you could have worked things out with each other..then you could of had some amazing make-up sex. Sounds to me like you are not his slice. I'm sorry sweety just trying to keep it real with you and save you more heartache in the long run. Trust me I've been there.
2006-12-30 22:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first thing do you have a side piece? If not then you need to get one because, if I were your boy friend an had fun with you all daylong an got mad an left you at night then for sure I would have a very nice piece of as'' ,,other then you..but that's just me.....an maybe most of the male's but not all....Manny4era@yahoo.com
2006-12-30 22:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by manny4era@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex for a reason, try and take it slow, and if u feel that he is getting some on the side u might just ask him!
2006-12-30 22:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by fox69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He doesn't show any respect at all. I will be worried too. Break up and make up is just a mind game. Go get check in to the std clinic and break up with him.
2006-12-30 22:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this what you asked him, and he got all pissy and stormed out? If that was the case, then he definately had sex with someone else.
2006-12-30 22:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly sweetheart, it you are broken up it isn't any of your business. Move on. Life is too short to pine away over someone who isn't interested in you anymore.
2006-12-30 22:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by star23charmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's that type of guy, probably he did. If he gets mad and storms out to the local bar and gets blind drunk, he probably did that instead. You know the guy best, you know why he is your ex, you are a big girl you know what to do.
2006-12-30 22:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how many times you two try to start over it cant work if you don't trust him and if he runs away everytime you argue....my opinion only and some experience.
2006-12-30 22:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋