how can a man can get peace as everywhere are the whispers and shadows of uncertainty in family members or els

Question

i am a muslim beleiver. i am suffering from mental torture. yes i know Islam is the complete code of life. But in the whole world muslims are suffuring deaths, meseries, choes and wounds. i know that its all the muslim community of today who is responsible for all this. Allah says to Unite but we are disintigrating ouverselvs. Allah says love others but we so muslims are thirsty of blood of our beloved ones. we are muslim but we are slauthoring our daughtrs, wives, mothers and committing suicides, i am Pakistani. We are Muslim but where is Islam (as i cannot find a person i can question and find the solution of my problems, for example i have commited a sin but in 21st centry i cannot admit it or i will be killed and it did not happened in the history of Islam. at this time i am only human and want to be the part of community which thinks for others and is sympathetic. i also know that i NEED PATIENCE WHICH WILL LEAD ME TO GOD BUT HOW CAN I GET PATIENCE HOW DO I CARRY ON BELIEVEOHTERS.

Answer 1

All people from all walks of life - good people, and those of many different religions, can suffer all these miseries. It happens to many types of people, and sometimes is inflicted by 'their own' people.

But as you say, many people are like you and want to be a good person, part of the community who thinks for others and cares about humanity and the world. Believe me, we don't hear as much about this in the news but I think good people like this are far more the majority than the people who commit acts of hatred.

You should certainly not suffer so much torture from the thoughts of how other people choose to live their lives. Be sure you are as good as you can be, and forgive your mistakes. You will inspire other people that way too, but more importantly, you will be a good positive person yourself. Whatever sin you feel you have committed, either forgive yourself and make up for it in other ways, or deal with it properly if it is serious.

Answer 2

I am not a muslim but I beleive that everyone should live in a peacefull world...

I dont no about Allah or any other relions but if someone like me who is not relious in anyway can understand that we need too live in a peacefull world with no toture no hunger and no poverty why cant everybody else...

Too answer ur question my friends (whatever ur relion)we as a people people all living on the same planet need too stop all the wars all the fighting amongst ourselves and learn too work as one unti as one people.together too ensure peace...

You cant find peace at the end of a barrel of a gun or by someone strapping explosives too themselves too make a statement and say they are doing it for there god because it doesnt work time as taught us that.when everyone decides too work towards peace on earth only then will we find peace...

I think then is when things will change for everyone. without reguards too what religion you are or anyone else is in the end you me and everybody knows that the human race needs too stop fighting amongst ourselves before we can find peace and maybe oneday that will happen just not yet but time will tell...

As for ur religion it is a good reason in many ways but so is evey other religion around everyone needs something or somebody too belieave in but untill we work as one all men and woman we will travel down tha same path we have many years beforhand until we all admit that this world does needs too change for the better and not the worst..there is good in every man women and chil in the world whatever the religion or they race,but unfortunately there also alot of bad in the world aswell its part of the packages without bad their cant be good untill we change that this place will remain the same.hopefully one day soon all of us will realize that....

What I dont understand though is why do you beleive that you need too fight too be heard or belief that committing a sin is punishable buy death many years ago maybe this was the case but nowadays it is not not bye everyone.It is good too remember the old ways but old ways come and go this is why are they the old ways.patientence is a good thing aswell as I say I'm not a muslim or even regilous so I cannot quote you on this kind of history but what I can tell you from one human being too another just because ur religion says ypou cannot do this or that remember these scriptors and writing in ur religion was written along time ago alot of time has passed since then if you beliave in your religon then follow the writing too the best of ur ability but do not take every word as literal because it will only confuse u... if you are stuck go see ur local priest and ask what you should do. But you as a invidual have ur own mind and heart so choose what you should and shouldnt follow in the writings some of the things that you have read may not apply now but if peace is what you are searching for look too urself and too others...

Answer 3

You shouldn't blame Islam for all the world's problems, everyone is responsible for his or her actions. Just because some terrorists in the world happen to be Islamic in nature, doesn't mean everyone in the world thinks that Muslims are terrorist. I know it may seem like the whole world is against you, but we're not. If you didn't know the first original Americans were Terrorists, because they were ruled by the British and fought some silly Tea Tax. So, now for the majority of the ruling party(AKA the people with most of the World's money) are Christian. Naturally these people don't like anything that doesn't agree with their belief system. But the strength of Islam is rising rapidly, and I believe if you can hold on the world will have a new majority.

Answer 4

We are first and most importantly human beings. Whether Christian, Jew or Muslim our "-ism" is only a part of who we are.

We may get a large part of our sense of right and wrong from our ethical religious base, but that's not the only influence we have in the world. It is my belief that we must love our self and others, pursue health and beauty for our world, reach across national boundaries and walls of prejudice to find the humanity in others.

I will not listen when I am directed to hate and destroy. I want to build and care. Whatever perpetuates pain and encourages destruction is my enemy. Fortunately the world I live in is mostly peaceful: certainly there is crime and violence, but I am careful, modest, frugal and spend my days teaching the next generation to solve problems not to create more.

Pray for patience, and Allah is faithful to provide. Dwelling in peace is the challenge that is put before us every day, and it has always been so.

Breathe deeply, imagine a better world and then act as though it is on the way. Each of your words and each of your actions either forge chains of despair and degradation or generate freedom for your brothers and sisters to experience the fullness of life. Confess your sin to Allah silently in your heart, and know that you are forgiven– it is the Creator that forgives, not men.

Look around, men are obsessed with judging and hating and punishing. Allah could kill us all, but doesn't because of the depth of his love. Keep your eyes on Allah, and close your ears to the hateful words of men who seek power and control for their personal or political agendas... what is that to ordinary people? We are not their sheep to be used and slaughtered. That was not the intent of the Creator. Be a wise and gentle human, have empathy and daily kindness for your fellow creatures.

Answer 5

Wow! I read yr profile because u answered my question & I was grateful for that. I see such suffering in yr question & I want to say even though yr Muslim. Jesus loves you, he stretched out his arms and died for you, just as he did for me, yours sins he took to his death and forgives & loves you. I am sure Allah would also not want u to be so unhappy and within our religions we should be able to speak and change what we do not feel is correct! May things change so that the women will be treated better, God would want us to make things better, to try to love eachother more and not just put up with seeing the weaker ones being left to suffer. I hope you will enter different communities to find the love that u deserve, it is such a tough world. God sees yr heart and will know yr sorry for yr sins, if you ask to be forgiven God will forgive you.

Answer 6

You sound as if you desperately need to find the peace within yourself.
Don't look to your community for this at the moment. There will be a time for going back to find a Mullah or a school of thought whose opinions you can relate to, but for now you need professional help of another kind.
Go and seek the help of a psychiatrist. They are held by professional oaths not to betray your trust or be judgemental towards the real you beneath your angst.
When you feel whole, then you can look at your religious questions with the eyes of your mind fully open.
Good luck.

Answer 7

You should examine your background and ask yourself why are you feeling like this and what led you to this position,try and look at your life without bringing in what some other man/men have been telling you.You should do your own thinking for yourself and not let others dictate to you what you should be thinking and doing, this advice applies to all people of all creeds and religions and not to any specific religion or creed. I am old enough to remember how the German people followed and worshipped a fanatical mans raving and ranting which destroyed their nation, many other ranters and ravers have come and gone leaving a trail of devastation in their wake. Unfortunately your problems appear to me to be deep seated and cannot be resolved easily, please for your own sake get some professional help, explain to your medical practitioner your feelings and follow the medical advice you will be given

Answer 8

islam is one deen one sect and maximum of all it prospers as a results of rationalism. to comprehend about shia sunni communicate we muslims have lower than one p.c. who imagine rationally. it truly is rational to imagine that we ought to study the mood of the loved fathima as, to understand what destiny awaited ummath after Rasool saww. different halves of the prophet were mom of all believers. yet Fathima AS will be chief of each of the wemen in any respect cases. it truly is time independant. So Fathima is a lot more suitable than ummul mumineen. might want to Allah keep this planet earth from the ignorant ones.

Answer 9

Two of the reasons I'm a Christian is love,
and forgiving. You can forgive others, and forgive
yourself. Talk to God. He sent us Jesus so we could.
No man comes to the Father, but through the Son.
Jesus taught love, not violence, and to love your
fellow man.
Pray for yourself to be forgiven.
Then leave it with God.
Amen
I just prayed for you. For us.

Answer 10

wow
the only religion i follow is Buddhism, which teaches love, compassion and under standing.
perhaps it is time you seek another religion if you feel yours is failing you that badly? or stand up for the true teachings within your own religion.
there are many who feel, as you do, that religion is simply becoming an excuse for war and a mask for evil doers.
you have to have faith in humanity as well as your religion,it is tough to believe in today's society, but the truth will emerge.
religion needs to be flexible to cope with today's society but change is not something that comes easy.
good luck with finding what you need, feel free to talk further to myself or others who you feel understand your predicament.