Always the same body type. Excuse is for drawing or sketching. I have mentioned how hurt ful this is. What do males get out of this behavior that females do not?
2006-12-30 14:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by MissCherokee 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It means he has a sexually active imagination.
This is one of those things that is different between most men and most women. Every man I've known well enough to know about it one way or the other uses some porn. Shakespeare asked "where is fancy bred, in the heart or in the head?" and concluded "in the eye". Man, again in general for there are exceptions, starts by liking what he sees, then finds out the personality, then develops love. Woman, in general, starts by romanticising her fantasy of the personality, then develops love.
Let's face it, a beautiful woman is beautiful to other women who have no sexual interest in her. Whereas most men don't have a clue what makes a man visually inspiring to women. It's the way we're made.
A real woman can't compete with a man's fantasies, but she can be the most super reality he'll ever know.
2007-01-02 19:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by MBK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm emphatic. I agree that this is hurtful. I mean, from your point of view, if he's gonna look at this kinda stuff, then you'd imagine that he'd easily touch what was in the pictures if these women were available...
Men recieve pleasure from seeing naked women. This can cause terrible jealousy in the female partner, because she probably tries her best to give him a healthy sex life and finding out that she's not sufficient is not nice.
Many men think about sex more than women. Men are often aroused by what they can visualise. A man is not likely to masturbate about pop stars and celebrities, but more likely to do it over the girl who served them in the baker's shop. This is another one of those things that cause jealousy in a relationship. Men who are in a sexual relationship often continue to masturbate.
However, after being in the same position myself, I now wouldn't get involved with someone who was into any kind of pornography. There are men out there who are not into this sorta thing. When I meet someone I usually ask them eventually of their opinion of pornography. But sometimes I don't have to ask! For example, if I see a guy giving me the eye on the train, reading a 'Loaded' magazine or similar porn for wimps, I don't look at them again. If they're into it, I'm outta there pretty sharpish. But of course, I check under the bed, etc, at the first opportunity to make sure nothing like that's there!
So, my advice is to either put up with it or realise that your personal habits and opinions don't match with this guy and leave with your dignity intact.
2006-12-31 00:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by tattyjan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean a naked woman I've gotta say I don't cringe in disgust. Why would I? Just because i'm gay doesn't mean i'm repulsed by the image of a naked woman. It might do nothing for me but it's not disgusting. That's just a common stereotype that gay men find womens bodies disgusting but nothing could be further from the truth. We don't find them sexually attractive but there's nothing wrong with them either :)
2016-05-22 22:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men just love women's naked bodies, and so do lesbians. Nothing wrong with that
2007-01-01 08:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by kif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are more visual than women.
why not put your self in that womans place
2007-01-03 02:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by matt d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.........oh I think that your gf has some dyke tendencies, cos it's really strange all that........oh I think it0s exciting too.
2006-12-31 01:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked her?
2006-12-30 21:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dibya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋