It seems i'm unpretty?

Question

I have had many bf's. Around five in since 5th grade..i know adults are gunna say ur too young but oh well...then stop reading... but every time i do..i treat them as best i can...but everytime in the end i get my heart broken...i think im unpretty but i dont know what else to do...i should have a higher self confidence...any tip on how to get it my confidence higher?

Answer 1

i guess you have to be comfortable w/yourself and confident....Have you noticed that even if you think someone is "ugly" if they seem comfident...then they just seem prettier. I don't know, everyone is pretty to someone. experience w/makeup, that always makes me more confident, when i look in the mirror and think i look pretty then it makes me happier. good luck!

Answer 2

i know that i answered one of ur questioons b4 about ur friend so look it up please bcuz i wrote u a long message. I am sory about all these probs u have. the best thing to do is feel confident and act confident. that way, ull have more confidence in yourself. dont ever say that ur unpretty... the only thing unpretty in this world is nothing. Just have confidence on the inside and it will show on the outside. dont try to be too fake but be yourself. what you can do is try some diffrent clothes or like some make up. go to supercuts and get a new do for $8! its pretty cheap and they do a great job!

Hang in there♥ :D

Answer 3

If you're so unattractive then how could you have had even one b.f. to begin with. Guys are always going to date girls for being pretty but it's the personality and maturity of both people involved that makes or breaks a relationship. Guys are fickle and you could have the greatest personality and be the hottest woman in the room but the guy will still think there's an even prettier girl in the next room. Guys find it annoying when they date a beautiful girl who doesn't have any self-confidence. Guys find confidence attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You might snort when you laugh and be smelly from just working out at the gym and have your hairy belly showing but if you exude sincere confidence guys will find that hot. It's so crazy and some people might disagree with me but honestly, look at all the whipped men worshiping some not visually all there women. Guys will look at the hot chicks but they'll go with the women who have confidence and their own personality. Also, right now for the first 25 years of a guy's life, they're still figuring out what they actually want from a woman. Some guys never figure out what they want. Some guys are going to be immature jerks and might always stay immature jerks but just focus on defining yourself as a person, take care of yourself physically and mentally, work on your education and hobbies and eventually when you least expect it you'll be juggling guys. It's great when you're back from the gym standing in line at the coffee house and guys are checking you out and asking you out. All girls feel like the Ugly Duckling but we grow up to be Swans. It just takes us a couple of years to check out our own reflection.

Answer 4

I believe that anyone can look pretty. Make-up is a girl's best friend. It allows for your face to brighten up and for a girl's best feature (eyes) to pop out and be noticed. Experiment. The more you practice the better you'll look. Play around with your hair and get a new look. Before you'll know it everyone will be looking at you when you walk in the room because of how beautiful you will look :) Be confident and know that you are pretty inside and out!!

Answer 5

Someone gave you the advice that "makeup is everything". Shame on them. Don't hide your face from the world, you're acceptable just as you are. If the world doesn't like you, screw them. In regaurds to the boyfriend issue, I think it's important for you to make yourself happy without a boyfriend. Once you've done that, then you can start looking for a date. Remember that you're amazing and someone guy out there knows that. You just haven't found him yet. Don't let all the guys you've dated in the past influence you.

Answer 6

well I kinda suffer with the same problem boys are different and they all like different people the best you can do is just be yourself and someone will like you for YOU! I'm sure your a great person so just go with that and if you like a boy then talk to him it can't hurt and who knows you might not even like him the way you thought you did. Just try not to let yourself doen too much. and buying things that you think and feel comfortable in always helps;)

Answer 7

many people have low confidence in themselves.
I myself used to have a low self confidence.
every day people would tell me I was pretty.
I would laugh it off and say "ok..if you say so"
But then one day I watched a show on girls with low confidence in themselves.
It is so not worth being down on yourself.
Look in the mirror and tell yourself all the good things about yourself.
You will find this makes you feel good about yourself.
and if people tell you different shoot them down right back.
Cause usually if somebody says something mean to you they are jelous.
Dont bring yourself doen either. ever.
its not worth it.
Be happy with what you got.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way.
-Amber

Answer 8

As long as yoru head is not shaped like Tori Spelling's, your golden. But then again, everyone is hot to someone out there.


Good luck sweetie and chin up!

Answer 9

i know this is lame, but "a relationship lasts on personality and trust"...don't think that bcuz you get ur heart broken it means that ur unpretty or something...it just means those guys are LOSERS! that's gow i see it! i had to end my last raltionship my self! cuz he was a LOSER! aren't all guys LOSERS? i mean c'mon! since guys r LOSERS, we can eventually overpower them, am i right?
♥hailz♥

Answer 10

get a makeover... it's all in the makeup! Have you seen Pamela Anderson without makeup or Tyra banks?? It isn't good.
And anyway.. you don't need a boyfriend or anyone to complete you.